You really can't change how you feel. I'm sorry to hear about your mom. And I can totally understand why you would be upset about this. I would talk to your dad. But you have to realize too that people deal with grief differently. Maybe he worked through it faster than you did, and is feeling lonely and wants to date. Or he just needs someone to be there so he can talk about it. Maybe this new girlfriend offers that to him.
I think he knows it will hurt you and that is why he is keeping it a secret. How long do you think he should wait until he dates again? I'm just curious.
I don't think he is dating because he doesn't care about your mom. He probably does miss her a lot, no one can replace her. Perhaps he just wants to have someone in his life he can be with to help him cope. Maybe he talks about it with her and she helps him work through the emotions.
But definitely talk to him. He shouldn't be hiding this from you, he needs to be open and honest.
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I understand where you are coming from. My dad passed away recently and it would be a big shock if my mom started dating already. I know that she hasn't, but if she had,I would know that it would be because she really liked the guy. You can only feel what you feel. I think the best thing for you to do is ask him, so you can get it all straightened out.
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I'm so sorry to hear that but ask him if he does have a girlfriend and if he says no confront him. I can't believe I found My dad's condom box and I understand now why he wasn't home a lot I can't believe I chose my dad over my mum when I was a little kid my mom said that he was keeping secrets always I wish I can turn time back he is always talking to her and I'm just 13 and he is being a really bad dad because he isn't here to help me and is telling me off because I keep on getting F on geography
he's moving on. That's great! why you reading his messages? that's really REALLY rude
It's his business. You have no right to rightful through his things. He would tell you when he thinks your ready.
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