At new year I met a girl at a party in a hostel. Her dress was super short stopping only just below her underwear and had the breast middle area cut away only hiding her nipples revealing most of her breasts.
I'm so dumb looking back. She came up to me at party started talking. We then all in a group went to a club.
Again she started talking to me. Both times I just made short answers cause well I'm dumb haha. She was super hot like stunning. And fact twice she started talking to me.
I'm slow though so thought I'd have chances talk to her later and in club.
Club was relatively small but still I never seen her again.
When I got back to hostel I didn't see her returning at all. I was hoping I'd see her next day. Again I didn't see her. She was flying home like 9pm.
Then I just thought about it and was thinking if she was dressed like that and being super friendly with random guys like me. Maybe she was looking for some hook up? So she probably met some guy and left club and hang with him next day. Right?
So now I thinking in future if a girl is going out with extra revealing clothing does this mean she is looking for sex/hook up that night?
If not why? There is nice dress that is somewhat revealing but this was super revealing you don't wear that for no reason right?
What Girls Said
Unless she either indicates to you that she wants instant sex and choses you, then she is feeling sexy and wants to share her sexyness with the world around her.. Take a look copy the image, say hello beautiful the MOVE ON. She will appreciate you more by not oggling.
Women are allowed to wear whatever they want and you shouldn't think because she dresses revealing she's trying to find a hookup she just wants to look sexy and feel sexy
That's good and bad to know. I don't mind her dressing like that good for me i like it. But that combined with her over friendliness to me I'm looking back thinking I missed out on a sexual encounter but you disagree?
I couldn't necessarily disagree cuz it did seem like she liked you from the way you described it but what I'm saying is just because someone's wearing something revealing doesn't mean she's out trying to catch a man
Ok obviously chatting to me regardless of her dress is good sign.
But you are saying wearing a dress low cut showing boobs etc doesn't mean she's looking for one night stand? But maybe it means more likely than girl dressed less revealing?
For example if I was a pick up guy going to clubs for sex I should look for women in the more revealing clothing? Or makes no difference?
It makes no difference that's just like if a girl gets raped and someone will say well she had on that little short dress that doesn't mean she was asking for it
Ye but most guys will think like me she's wearing revealing close so she must be looking for sex.
So if girls know what guys think then they are fulfilling that idea even if not their intention.
That would be his problem
Or hwr problem if lots guys start hitting on her etc.