Was my reply bad?

[Candycreamlovex]

I asked this guy if I come over and he told me he's been busy and that he has a lot on his plate right now. But that he'll tell me when it's good for me to come over.

Below was what I said when I replied to his message

Oh, wow really? Mmm, ok let me know if you need anything.

[Does my reply sound bad? I honestly didn't mean anything negative by it I was just concerned which is why I replied the way that I did.]

[Jamesier]

The two comments earlier are not wrong instead they are most probably right. If someone is interested in you, no matter how busy they are, they'd find or create time to be with you. I've once told a lady what that guy told you 'cause I didn't like her or enjoy her company. If I'd spend time with a lady, it'll be someone I'm interested in. If she had shown up when I told her I was busy, I'd be so uncomfortable and pissed and that can make me cut all forms of communication with her.

It's the same for the opposite sex, why would you tell a guy you're busy and are currently handling many things? If you are interested, you'd accept for him to come around or for you guys to go out. Imagine the guy coming over when you told him you're busy and would tell him when to come.

It's not your fault for showing up since you said you saw his message late, but, you should have waited for his reply. People love their privacy you know and that was a mistake on your part.

And also, you should know that you sought others' opinion and they provided it based on what you shared. So, you shouldn't get all angry and attack them for their opinion.

[Anonymous]

You are NOT his girlfriend fmd stop trying to act like this is a relationship. Understand this, friends with benefits very rarely ever turn into anything more than 2 people using eachother for sex. He told you he was busy but instead of respecting this, you instead showed up to his house like a frigging stalker without his permission to be there. You are pathetic

[Danny_dan92]

Thank you. Exactly

[Candycreamlovex]

Did I say I was his girlfriend? No, I did not so what exactly are you talking about? Friends with benefits is not the same thing for everyone. You can not read either I didn't show up after he told me he was busy. I went to his house before he said that. You're the one who is pathetic because you can't even comprehend what you read. Instead of trying to bad talk me go learn how to read. You're stupid and can not read.

[Danny_dan92]

End of relationship

[Candycreamlovex]

End of relationship? What you're saying makes no sense at all. Go away troll

[Danny_dan92]

He’s done. I’m not trolling.

This is an app where people ask for advice/input/opinions of others. That’s what I did

[Candycreamlovex]

Can you read? Apparently, you can't.

[Danny_dan92]

I definitely can.

[Candycreamlovex]

If could you actually read then you'd know he said he would let me know when it's good for me to come over.

[Danny_dan92]

Ever heard of a soft landing? Ever consider that you are no longer a priority and are now his second, third, fourth, fifth option?

He’s moving on. Pay attention to context clues

[Candycreamlovex]

Ever heard of someone being busy and doesn't have time right now? I'm not sure why you're automatically assuming this. When he could have easily said he doesn't want to see me anymore. You don't know him personally to say that he doesn't want to see me again. You are just making assumptions.

[Danny_dan92]

Then if you’re so sure why ask strangers for their opinions. Kinda stupid honestly

[Candycreamlovex]

You're the one that's stupid thinking you know what complete stranger is thinking. You probably don't even have a clue about what's going on in your own life. I don't get how people like you think you know what a person is thinking. When you don't even know them in real life.

[Danny_dan92]

Oh the irony. Making assumptions about me when you don’t know a thing about me

[Candycreamlovex]

And yet that's what you on sitting on here doing to me. Because you need attention so badly from people on the internet.