Can guys pick up when a woman is “mentally unstable” without actually knowing her? What are the signs?

[Anonymous]

Do you leave or show concern

[Pegases]

I think most men used to show concern, but as modern day feminism creates enemies out of men and women alike, I see more men choosing to simply walk away, as they should. If your mentally unstable, take time to yourself to heal. Hurt people hurt people.

[Asker]

But how would a guy show concern

[Pegases]

I read your other replies. Of course he picked up on you being mentally unstable. You wished death upon him. How cruel. Next, all men have a natural instinct to want to protect and help women. But men are learning to walk away from women that say things like what you said to him, as they should. You have to heal yourself. And if you actually care about that man, and it appears you do since you felt bad about what you said to him, then leave him alone.

[Asker]

It came from hurt. Him friendzoning me and low key rejecting me but it was wayyy more complicated than that

We planned on sleeping together but he said he didn’t want me to get in my feelings if a relationship didn’t happen.. “whatever that means”

I appreciate him caring enough about my feelings but I still felt like I just wasn’t good enough.

[Asker]

But saying “I respond to you bc I feel bad for you” hurts and saying I’m “lonely, angry and insecure “ hurt even tho it was true… why say it if you have no intention of staying

When I ask him if he wants to keep talking “it’s up to you” like huh? That sucks

[Anonymous]

I'm pretty sure me amd my crush are both unstable lol

[Anonymous]

Mentally unstable people will show signs even when you don't know them.

[UniquelyBasic]

If she's a woman then she's unstable 😆

[BarryLiverstone]

What do you mean by mentally unstable?

[Asker]

Outburst
Inconsistent with what she says
Low self esteem/negative self talk
Tad clingy

He quoted “I feel bad for you” “you are lonely angry and very insecure”

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes those can be picked up on

[Asker]

Do you show concern or leave

[BarryLiverstone]

Try to be sympathetic.. no one is a mind reader. For example how did you feel after he said that?

[Asker]

Horrible but that’s bc I said that I hope something happens to him on his job

[BarryLiverstone]

What happens to him?

[Asker]

He’s a firefighter. So yeah.. read in between the lines

[BarryLiverstone]

If you wanted him to get hurt that seems cruel

[Asker]

I only said it bc I felt hurt by him

[BarryLiverstone]

So you didn’t mean it

[Asker]

Not at all

It came from hurt. Him friendzoning me and low key rejecting me but it was wayyy more complicated than that

We planned on sleeping together but he said he didn’t want me to get in my feelings if a relationship didn’t happen.. “whatever that means”

I appreciate him caring enough about my feelings but I still felt like I just wasn’t good enough.

[Anonymous]

Yes. We run, not walk away. 😆😆😆

[In_Trance]

Absolutely

[Asker]

Absolutely what?

[Asker]

How so

[In_Trance]

Watch the patterns. You can only keep retarded retained for so long

[Asker]

Do you show concern and care or leave?

[In_Trance]

Depends on the circumstances.

[Asker]

Like?

[In_Trance]

How fucked up is she?