What does it mean if a guy is attracted to mentally disturbed/unstable women?

[Anonymous]

[normalice]

It means he should know that what he wants from women is unrealistic and adjust his expectations, but instead he is tossing hiss wishes into a box of uncertainty, hoping that will work out like mysticism.

[MK1997]

@normalice good you learned

[normalice]

Aye, and I was fortunate enough to learn by observation rather than experience.

[normalice]

(Though sadly it was my father I observed)

[MK1997]

I don't think it's possible to learn by observation

[normalice]

Watch me 😅

[Asker]

Thanks a lot for your well thought out reply. It helps. May peace be with you.

[DarkLegacy]

It means he is mentally disturbed and unstable himself. I avoid women like that

[Asker]

Maybe I am regretfully disturbed in some hopefully subtle ways.

[Anonymous]

Then I REALLY hope you're not attracted to me.

[RebelinSteel]

That there is a fair chance he is narcissistic and controlling, potentially abusive and sees them as vulnerable girls to exploit.

[Asker]

I’m not abusive. I’m mostly into men, but still have a thing for bat crazy women.

[DishLady]

Like attracts like...

[Asker]

Are you asking what I find attractive about them?

[jahaims]

He isn't mentally healthy either

[Asker]

I won’t argue that.