What does it mean when a guy thinks you’re unstable?

[Anonymous]

Is he just gaslighting

[ProbablyClueless]

It means that he thinks your mood is erratic, and that you have disproportionately strong emotional reactions to things.

Gaslighting means that he's trying to convince you of something that is objectively not true. Technically, this would not be gaslighting.

[Asker]

What was the purpose of talking or telling me that if he felt that way

[ProbablyClueless]

That is a question you'd be better off asking him, if possible.

It might have just been an off handed comment, like something he just said without thinking. Or maybe he's hoping you'll try to be more mindful of your feelings moving forward.

[Asker]

I asked him why and he didn’t know

[ProbablyClueless]

Probably just an off-handed comment, then.

[spartan55]

Lol... well with no details, context, anything, how would anyone be able to answer this? Another lazy ass question.

[Asker]

What details would you need

[spartan55]

Uh... any. Do I need to listen explain how to write a question?

[itsannalee]

Maybe he was talking about our emotional?
If you think ge was right, u are unsrable, tou can try to change and control yourself. But if u think u aren’t like that just walk away. He just tried to change u it blame you.

[jahaims]

It means literally what it means. How would we know with the given context if he is gaslighting or not? You do sound off tbh.

[DaddyDiablo]

I don't thinkh he's gaslighting maybe you're just not right in the head that's to his liking lol

[Anonymous]

You could be unstable. It's not always a bad thing. Apparently, I find that attractive.

[war_daddy]

it means you're unstable

[Asker]

How is someone unstable tho?