Is a girl saying “I was with this guy yesterday at the library a sign she’s not interested?

[ElitoChan]

We were together today and some topic came up in which she mentioned that she was with this guy yesterday at the library to use the software for some coursework- bare in mind they stay together even after class. All signs she’s into him however, she tends to tell me more personal things, seems to trust me more, I need advice, might hurt but it is what it is.

[PrettyPriya]

Impossible to say 100% if she is or she isn't based only on that. There would be some clear signs of flirting, not just going to the library to do schoolwork. That is very typical. Even if they stay after class. Perhaps she just works well with this classmate and they have a good system together.

There is nothing to say it is anymore than just that. When in school, I studied with guys that were in my class. There were a couple of them that were just good at the class so it made sense to study with some of the best students, right?

Now, if there is more to this story that you didn't put in the description, that could change my answer. If there is flirting between them or they are doing stuff more than studying, I would say it could be they have a thing.

I would look more to how she acts around you rather than focusing on her actions with others. That is far more telling then her studying with some guy at the library.

[ElitoChan]

They are playful tbh but then a friend told me that she’s nervous to do it to me because she doesn’t know how I’d react.

[PrettyPriya]

That sounds like she likes you if that is true she is nervous to flirt. She is afraid of rejection, which is natural when you like someone.

[HollyK21]

Honestly dude you don’t know what her relationship with that guy is, and the things you described are not the best indicators. Same for her telling you private things, some people will do that whether you’re their friend or simply someone who will listen. If you want a clear answer then you can only get it from her, since we can only speculate here. Tell her you’re interested, ask her out or something.

[ElitoChan]

We went out last Saturday and she said she enjoyed it, she’s the one to actually invite me.

[HollyK21]

Maybe since she initiated last time, you could invite her out next time. Then you’d be able to get a better read on her feelings and possibly have a conversation about all this.

[jenna980000]

My advice is that you ask her about it. You'll have your answer and though it may hurt, you'll know it.

[rachel776]

girls change their minds all the time. don't worry about the other guy

[In_Trance]

this is a gong show. move on

[Shedzij567]

He must ask her

[Iron_Man]

Talk to her