Why do people shame women who are really shy or generally very quiet? Why is it encouraged to be so open and friendly with everyone?

[Anonymous]

[LikeALog]

I think most people can not differentiate between shy, quiet women and snooty, stuck up women. They assume the women have a better than thou attitude and just want to put them down, shaming them.
Thankfully, not everyone is a loud, outgoing person. I personally find those types irritating. Too often they don't become true friends.
The more reserved women are the ones I became friends with. They usually have many varied interests and fascinating people. One I met almost 20 years ago. She now lives 400 miles away but we keep up with each other through social media and phone calls.
Really, there is nothing wrong being shy or quiet.

[nudetru]

it's really not .. it's always at your discretion who you u want to be around n who to get to know...
shyness is just a a matter of comfort

some people are more selective with associations others liberal..

they like to impose them selves by expression of nonshelount interest in a person and think it's support to ignore so many other aspect s to a personality.. and blindly assume that if you shook more hands n kissed more babies you d. be cured.. to be like every body else n like take credit for that success too.

good for you for maintaining boundaries.. can't be to careful idiots are highly contagious

[Red-Blaze]

Becouse its considered a postive trait to be social as part of being a social animal, a lone wolf for genrations are counted as dangures and unstable
It may change with the current sociaty but changes are slow
Regardless being shy is fine, being unsocial id where many eill see a problem for the person them self, and sociaty around them

I am not saying any of this is right or wrong, just giving the side view of it that I think I can understand

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I've never been shamed for my natural shyness. But shame on people who do that to others.

[MysticDevice]

Its not just women. They shame everyone who's generally quiet. When people ask me why I'm always quiet I ask them why they're so loud. Gets them every time

[boggboss]

Because talking to people like this tends to be a pain 🤷🏽‍♂️

[virgincountryboy]

Well I can tell you this that I am very shy and very nervous and everything because I am new to ever thing and I am a virgin and I am very sorry and very nervous and shy about it

[Zandoval]

Because it is easy to hit a tree that won't hit back.

[Anonymous]

I don’t know. I know some awesome people who are shy.

[Iron_Man]

I don’t criticize anybody, but it’s not good to be standoffish afraid of the world

[sheenagwapa]

you shouldn't be shamed for it.

[Anonymous]

The more a woman shuts the fuck up, the better