Is this normal behaviour?

[Anonymous]

When my girlfriend has her hair or eyebrows done (she doesn't always inform me, which is absolutely fine) she often asks me the next time I see her if I notice anything different about her. If it's a new lipstick or her nails have been done I do often comment on it, but minor changes to her hair (like an inch or 2 off) or eyebrows I find hard to spot. Usually if I haven't noticed any change I will say so. My issue is, she often gets quite annoyed, upset and criticises me if I don't notice, often to the point of saying I do not care about her. Is this normal behaviour? Should I be able to spot these changes, especially if I haven't been told beforehand that she has a hairdressimg appt etc. It feels like she is testing me or seeking reassurances and it just puts me on edge. Like I always have to be on the look out for things incase she asks me.

[Anonymous]

I personally think that’s a bit far. I understand wanting your man to notice things you change but eyebrows and a small hair cut I think that’s a bit much. Fair enough if it’s a new hair colour or a tattoo or something. I don’t even expect my man to notice my nail colour. I think her getting upset at that is definitely being dramatic. Sounds a bit high maintenance.

[Guy13]

This is normal. Women pay attention to the details and expect their men to do the same, however, this is not going to change. “You don’t live her the way she loves you.”