Do woman view guys who are scared of talking to woman as cowards?

[Anonymous]

In general

Are they viewed as "less"?

[FilmGuy93]

I dated a girl who saw things that way. That woman was a weapons grade bitch though. She was gorgeous, but a categorically unpleasant person, once you got passed the facade she put up for her friends.

[Asker]

I want to give you a few examples of my few delimmas & I'd like your take on why these particular woman would act like this towards me

When I was 17 I enrolled in anger management classes & my counselors were mostly woman except for 2 older men

I'll just fast forward... basically they had no problems talking to me & ABOUT me

(behind my back apparently)

They wouldn't have a problem staring at my bulge or passing rumors if I was big or not to the other counselors

They wouldn't mind if I stared at them sexually either but I do remember that I was referred as a "coward" apparently

Don't know why?

[FilmGuy93]

Sounds like you're just dealing with immature and bitchy women. Don't expect that kind of behavior to make sense.

[Asker]

But why would they care to mention sexual connotations about me & spread rumors if I'm well endowed or not?

[FilmGuy93]

They’re assholes. Assholes gon’ asshole. That’s who they are. It’s what they do

[Asker]

I notice that I tend to grab the attention of these "types" of gals

Not always but some

[MarkHrdman]

In context it would mean that you fail to act & given that was back when you where 17 it proves your point but its to late for you now anyway

[Hellraiser1984]

I'm the same way. Lots of bad experiences. Lots of rejection. I don't trust them. I think they only want rich buff Adonis types anyway. They think they deserve to be rich and pampered and lay around all day. Plus most of them are going gay so guys like me are pretty much looking at being lifelong bachelors. Time to start looking at moving to a different country where men are more respected.

[Asker]

But from my experiences these GALS purposely go out of their way to start shit with me regardless of how I look

[Hellraiser1984]

It's their nature. Just like guys pick on the weak women do it too. It's survival of the fittest.

[Asker]

So I'm just seen as an "outcast" BUT if I did fight back physically & won... then I'll be snitched on & blamed for everything like the RATS these counts really are?

[Hellraiser1984]

You and I are fucked my friend. I'm sorry you have to go through this but at least you are young enough to change. I'm too old and too damaged.

[Asker]

The thing is

Men in general always want to "buck up to me" as in size me up or challenge me

But Im not popular with the opposite sex nor do I attract them or get laid

I don't get it

[MarkHrdman]

If you live in fear of rejection then it doesn't matter how far you run, you'll never be respected..
& in relation to you not talking about woman turning lesbian but talking about gay guys you really dont justify you point of being a man.

[Quackthulu2]

Nah, I don’t view them at all. I have more important shit to worry about then whether some guy is too scared to talk to me or just not interested.

[Asker]

If you were interested in a guy & he was "scared" to talk to you? Then would it be a problem?

[Quackthulu2]

You mean like if I made the first move and he pissed himself and ran away? Yeah, that might be an issue… but might also be a turn on now that I think about it. Guess it depends on what I would be wearing.

[Asker]

Slight stuttering & not being able to make eye contact

[Quackthulu2]

Might be interesting, if he learns his place. It’s been a while since I have had a male sub to play with.

[Asker]

Would his size play in account? If he's slightly touching "8"? Age also can play a factor

[Quackthulu2]

Aaaand we are done here.

[MarkHrdman]

I think the word you're looking for is jizzed, lol

[MarkHrdman]

Yes. you're gay.

Being ignorant isn't cowardly and woman have the same view so you're less then nothing!

[Guy13]

Yes they are assumed as spineless and lacking confidence. Immediate dismissal and consideration occurs. Speak and act...

[AngryCarl2]

Not really. I think they're actually grateful you removed yourself from the gene pool.

[Nikki1989]

Well, yeah. Kind of.

[Asker]

But you'll get mad either way if he approaches you if he's also unattractive

So it's a loss - loss situation

[Nikki1989]

With that attitude, you will always lose.

[Asker]

Not necessarily... you have to be smart not to approach the "wrong one" who might make a big scene for you approaching her

What would most gals know about approaching

They rarely ever do

[MarkHrdman]

But it doesn't mean that they dont.
Your problem is confidents & youve already get the answer you're looking for.
Its probably better for you to work your way up by taking a woman that people wouldn't go for because of your confidents issue or a grenade. there's another term I can't think of at the moment but an under 5 is more your standard at this point

[LazerBean]

Yes.

[Asker]

Why? Specifically?

[LazerBean]

Because it's a sign of a weak man.

[Asker]

What if he was an ugly guy & had no hesitation of going up to you? Especially if he's very arrogant

[MarkHrdman]

👍 to avoid the lessor of the species.

[LazerBean]

An arrogant man is no better than a weak man.

[MarkHrdman]

What about an ignorant man who wants to share an interest with a woman?

[MarkHrdman]

by the way you're beautiful. Congrats on being married at such a young age

[LazerBean]

Thank you! And I wouldn't be interested in ignorant men either.

[MarkHrdman]

you're welcome and thats good to know but hey I've got to be honest with you I've got plenty of attention from being ignorant of the fact that there is chemistry there to talk to a woman/girl as though things are cool and casual so I know there is interest there but I respect the fact that this is not you & I appreciate your honesty in that respect.
I hope things turn out for you in your life but I can understand temptation. So im sure it wouldntbe difficult to be tempted by you in a sexy outfit.

[Anonymous]

Yes often

[Asker]

But that's you assume WHY you THINK a guy isn't talking to woman or is afraid too apparently

I'm my case... I grew up with a single mother & never knew my father (still don't) so I became too attached to my mother & distrusting of males in general

Add that I was considered "unattractive" from elementary school towards literally now

I just isolated myself & resorted to only speaking to my mother & forcing myself to have hobbies to pass the days

Is it my fault entirely that I don't interact with the opposite sex?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe not but with some therapy, you could learn to trust people more. The choice is in your hands from now on.

[Asker]

Just out of curiosity

What's your assumption of a guy who's supposedly considered "unattractive" who completely avoids both genders & just does his own "thang"

You never seen him interact with anyone nor does he ever invite anybody to his crib

If you add that he never smiles or laughs either... always very serious

A creep? Your first assumption

[Opinion Owner]

I think he’s scared of intimacy.

[Asker]

It's pretty odd how most woman assume I'm a "creep" on sight or are scared of my presence
(has happened)

But eventually they drop all that scared BS when they notice how I don't interact with either gender or talk to the opposite sex & either they start provoking or just ignore me

Men on the other hand try to provoke me

[Opinion Owner]

That sucks.

[Asker]

So what it is it that you assume people want from me?

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe you’re not ugly. Maybe you’re attractive?