Guys, how do you feel about women being scared to say no to men’s advances because they are scared of being attacked?

[Anonymous]

I’m definitely not one of those women, but that’s pretty damn sad. A lot of women just give out fake numbers or just don’t respond to the guy when they message them 🤷‍♀️ still sad af.

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Forgive me if my English is little messed up not my first language

[ohshee]

The moment I glanced at this post I said oh fuck no and I pressed the question before I even read it I was going to tell you don't you ever don't ever feel scared to say no I was going to read you the Riot Act and I mean help you so many different ways but then I read the whole question and I'm so glad you're not one of those people you were almost about to have a brand new friend he was going to teach you every way possible you can say no I feel confident and comfortable about doing it I'm very glad that I read the whole question

[Giselleselfish]

Use full stops

[ohshee]

Does that mean Periods

[Giselleselfish]

Yes!!

[SmokinAces2000]

It’s really a shame that we live in a world like that but we do and I think it’s ignorant for a man to get pissed because a girl isn’t feeling him. All jokes aside if a girl wasn’t feeling me I would just move on to another girl no point in crying over spilled milk

[Leavesbound]

This is why I prefer the woman pursue me. I also like it when they take charge in the bedroom. I make that fact known early in dating. One woman started flirting with me and I flirted back and I'm a bit shy so she had to encourage me a little more to ask her out. At the end of the date she invited me in to her place and I accepted and we found our way to the bedroom and asked her if she wanted me to take charge or be her love slave. She nervously chose the second one but then became very relaxed when I just started doing everything she said to and I let her do whatever she wanted. Basically when I encounter this sort of fear I try to empower her by making sure she knows she can be in full control if she wants and in fact that I like it that way. Sometimes it doesn't work. Sometimes the woman gets upset and says things like I'm not a real man. But I'll take that chance if it means helping a woman come out of her shell and turn into a tigress.

[foxandphoenix]

I feel these women need to "man up" and tell no repeatedly. Women need to be more empowered from within, as much as, and it is also men's fault, from without. Women need to say no when they feel they need to, and men has to grow a pair and take it.

[Asker]

You don’t understand dude? I said they are literally being attacked for saying no. What you said isn’t helping man.

[foxandphoenix]

You kinda only said they are scared of being attacked not for being attacked. If they are being attacked then attack back.. Men get the same aggression from men in different situations, that is called bullying. For women, then, I guess it is up to them, for fight or flight, but definitely to learn how to defend themselves. If they couldn't, then as men do when they are physically, mentally, or socially attacked, can resort to other options. for me that is not the point though. I stell feel that women being scared for saying no is unacceptable regardless of the reason they should be able to say no.

[Asker]

Why the hell would they be scared of being attacked if they didn’t know women were being attacked? Makes no sense man. It’s good what you are trying to say but, women shouldn’t have to “fight or flight” because a lot of guys can’t accept rejection. They need to start carrying guns, like the guy in the video did.

[Asker]

“Attack back” it’s not that simple it’s like you’re forgetting many women are physically weaker than many men

[foxandphoenix]

I couldnt agree more with what you say, thats why it is wrong to have had her feel that way. I get that feeling. Being afraid of being in harms way because of the basic right of rejecting. And that is the whole point here. It is wring not being able to say no. But I have learned now through a lot of situations that saying no sends clearer messages, especially with the wake of a lot of movements, becomes safer for women than fake answering or lying. So. That is the deal, i still feel it is unfair, i still feel it is wrong. And if i ever were at a place where a lady shows any signs of distress i would be there to take the hit and hope she be in safe and peace.

[Asker]

I understand, thank you

[MzAsh]

It’s unfortunate. I don’t think men are scary. Some would like to think they are but that’s a different discussion for a different day.

[Kaneki05]

Sad. women shouldn't have to feel that way. But bad people exist.

[Anonymous]

Ordinarily in normal times, I'd say it's completely unfounded. But these are NOT normal times, so depending on the location, I'd say it IS reasonable to be scared

[Asker]

Shouldn’t have to be

[Dinosaursandanime65]

But my Conga Willa advance in their taka of victory honorably

[Asker]

Your trolling is horrible.

[BIG-BLACK-Robinson]

Out of all the videos, you had to share a black guy? Why?

[Kaneki05]

Because it's a bad guy don't matter his race? or do you think specifically she shouldn't show a bad guy just cause he is black? If so... that's racist.

[Asker]

You sound very stupid 1. 2. You guys do this of all races. And a lot of you black do hurt women if you really want to get into it. It’s not a race thing though.

[Anonymous]

I feel the same way about them as I do about people who won't go outside because they are afraid of being struck by lightning.

[WowwGirl]

No back bone

[JesseJayNeak]

Your safety must be your number one priority