I get too much attention from unavailable women?

[Anonymous]

I’ve noticed a pattern in my life and I’m not sure what I’m doing to bring it on. It seems like the only women who are genuinely interested in me are in relationships. I’m curious to know if it’s a certain behavior or energy I’m putting out. Has anyone else dealt with this?

[Guy13]

I have had this garbage since 22 years old from married older women. It has not changed and gotten worse. I have been told that "you have a sweetness about me that I can feel"-I'm like yeah okay you 60 year ole hound...

[KathrynTaylor]

I don’t know.. people in relationships who aren’t married can still change their minds about whom they want to be with. That’s what my married friend told me.

[Asker]

That’s understandable. I’m just wondering if it’s something in my behavior I need to work on. I never engage but it happens far too often.

[KathrynTaylor]

Maybe you seem like the sort of guy seeking commitment?

[Alaskan_123]

Probably it is the vibes your giving off. Maybe your really attractive, and all the unavailable women notice. Or maybe you seem like a provider, and the unavailable women want that because their bfs aren't giving them that.