What to do if my partner is always busy with her friends?

[Anonymous]

She’s a college student and stays at college women’s hostel with her friends.

All day she’s busy with her friends from morning to night 11pm. Yes we call at night, but during day time even if I send a text, she just ignores if she’s es busy with gossiping or watching some shit old movies with her friends.

Sometimes she might have her phone in her hand, even if I call, she would just ignore it and talk with friends.

[SomeRandomGuy89]

In her life, you are not a priority and thus not deserving of being made a priority in your life. Start putting less energy into her and more energy into yourself.

One of two things will happen if you do. Ether she will come around and start prioritizing you higher, or you will get to a point where you feel you can do better, and you'll find someone else.

[Asker]

Thanks a lot man. I think you’re right. She mostly come to me either when she’s alone or when she want something or to gossip something about her friends.

Thanks

[LivDev]

What that guy said but I personally would suggest you just cut her loose and move on. If a guy acted like that towards me I def would have.

[Asker]

@LivDev thanks dear I ignored her for a day and she kept on calling and said sorry

[SomeRandomGuy89]

Good. Now take your foot off the gas pedal and let her put in some initiative. Women don't find men attractive if they know you're always available. I'm not saying ignore her but never make a girl your entire world. It's not healthy and I promise you it will always backfire.

[Asker]

Thanks a lot buddy. You're right. Once I saw the same opinion from an experienced relationship advisor.

[In_Trance]

you either accept it or you move on. Your choice