Girlfreind messages guy?

[Anonymous]

Should i be concerned if my girlfreind is texting another guy throughout the day? I've seen some of the text it's nothing in the sexual nature but they message back and forth pretty much all day aboit random stuff. Is this a red flag?

[AmyMasters]

Ok some people might be ok with that but I got divorced over my ex texting another girl.. it eventually turned into more. So what started out harmless ended up with them sending pictures and saying I love you. I am not saying she will be to me it’s a red flag and leads to emotional cheating.

[Asker]

Sorry to hear that ! I'm not normally the jealous / controlling type but daily messages are kind of getting to me. Just seems excessive every once in awhile I could see it. Thinking about confronting her about it

[AmyMasters]

I would talk to her about it. Daily messages means she has an emotional connection to this person and eventually she will turn to him to get those needs
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