What’s with girls saying the guy has to be 6 foot tall what if a guy said any girl has to be at least a C cup?

[Anonymous]

There’s nothing wrong with preferences. It’s fine! However, these aren't written in stone laws!! My son who is 5’8 and a half was hanging out with this girl it’s his first time kinda dating/flirting/courting a girl. The girls 5’2 and he said he overheard her talking to a friend saying a guys gotta be 6 feet or above no short guys. Wtf !! If my son said she’s gotta have D cups flat girls for me. I’d say unacceptable Dom that’s not how you talk about girls!! You don’t eliminate girls on the basis of cup size!! But for girls to saying this, it’s ok? My husband is 6foot but if he was a few inches shorter I don’t care I never thought about it. He loves me, he’s handsome he protects me, provides for me, and puts me first! Why is the height thing so important all of a sudden? It’s seriously messed up. My son feels like this girl is leading him on now!! I get if a girl is 5’9 and wants a guy who’s at least taller than her I’m fine. But 5’2 girls saying he’s gotta be 6 foot? Why I’m 4’11 I’m not going to start making height requirements lol

[Msputiton]

It's called a preference.

You can't force someone to date someone they don't want to date.

If a woman only wants to date guys 6'0 or taller that's her choice.

If a guy wants to date a woman c cup or bigger that is his choice.

But both ways should be respectful when turning down someone that doesn't fit what they like

[baseball_del_tuono]

I understand it’s a preference we all have preferences!! Most men are under 6 foot you’re going to eliminate most men on the basis of height? That’s a terrible idea you’re going to miss out on all types of relationships and happiness by eliminating most guys before knowing them

[Msputiton]

@baseball_del_tuono i didn't say this my preference but I don't think it's my business to tell someone who they need to date.
And people shouldn't be mad because they don't fit that range. Find someone who you fit what they want to date instead of trying to force people to date someone that they don't want to date.
And even if the small percentage of men aren't over 6'0 there are still hundreds of thousands even millions that are. That person will find more than enough 6'0 plus men in their life to date.
Hell the college i just graduated from, i personal speak to as friends at least 25 men that are over 6'0 they are not some phenomenon

[baseball_del_tuono]

No one’s forcing anyone to do anything it’s an absurd standard and most women will end up unhappy and lonely if that’s their standard

[Asker]

I agree with @baseball_del_tuono it’s ridiculous to eliminate that many guys (most guys) … I think most girls would be appalled if a guy said I won’t date you unless you’re a C cup or better! I’m 97 pounds and a 32D if some guy said I will only date girls with a D cup who’s under 100 pounds how many good relationships and good women is that guy going to miss out on. Yes you’re allowed to have that standards its just ridiculous

[Msputiton]

Then if you find it ridiculous don't do it.
But it is also ridiculous to shame someone for having standards that are different than yours.
You 2 are literally trying to shame someone you aren't planning to date.
What works for you, works for you.
What works for me works for me.
What works for someone else works for someone else.
We are all different in someone way. Including preferences.
You want to live in a world where we all act the same, and like the same things.
That is BORING, and let's be honest if you feel you need to talk about how ridiculous someone else's preferences this is a big mental issue you have to work out. Because it is very weird.

[Asker]

Ok I'm 4’11 and D cup what would you think of a guy who says no flat girls and no chunky girls I only date Gitks under 100 pounds who are a C cup or better? Would you think that guy is shallow and extremely superficial Yes or no?

[Msputiton]

Not sure why that example matters.
But my thought is that it is there right to date who they want.
We are all superficial in our preferences even if it is personality.

You ain't chose that person for anything other than that is the type of personality you like, or to prove to others that you ain't superficial.
Right now this is nothing more, than trying to show gag look at me, i am better than someone who openly admits, that they have preferences.

[Asker]

No one suggested it was there right. Can you answer my question? You don't want to because you know you think that would make the guy shallow. That’s exactly the point why do you except the women being shallow but shane the guy for it?

[Msputiton]

I did. It is not superficial to date someone you are attracted to, and decline someone who you are not.
I stated that in my first reply, and 3rd reply and the previous reply
We are allowed to date people we want to date, because we find part of attractive.
We are allowed to decline to date people that we don't find attractive.
There is nothing worse than dating someone you don't find attractive.

[Msputiton]

In fact i think it is more harmful to force yourself to date someone you don't like because you just lead that person on. Why?
To prove to others that you ain't superficial. That is more superficial than giving someone false hope, so you can look like you have moral highground.

[baseball_del_tuono]

You’re not answering the question at all. You’re intentionally avoiding the question

[Msputiton]

@baseball_del_tuono wow y'all slow. Let me slow it down.
It is not superficial. That was the question.
Do i say it again.
Not shallow. It is not superficial 🤣
Once again in case it ain't clear 🤣no it is not shallow or superficial 🤣
This has got to be the funniest thing i ever seen🤣
y'all just ridiculous 🤣

[HollyK21]

@msputition I’ve gathered that he is the askers son, and that’s where this defensive behavior is coming from.

[Msputiton]

@HollyK21 lmao🤣

[baseball_del_tuono]

It was the first time you answred it lol

[baseball_del_tuono]

@HollyK21 no that’s not my mom Einstein

[HollyK21]

Who’s your mom then? Didn’t you say a while back your mom also uses this site? If she’s not your mom then why you going hard under several comments like this?

[baseball_del_tuono]

@HollyK21 yes my mom is on this I found her. I’m not telling cause it’s embarrassing!! Other people have figured it. You can too!! Just because I agree with someone doesn’t make them my mom. Use your brain

[HollyK21]

You mean waste my time trying to find the mom who’s already here? No thanks, pack it up take it elsewhere.

[Finchie40]

Some people hold preferences like it’s the most important thing and sadly it is so stupid to do that to limit yourself from someone that could possibly be amazing to you but most people are selfish and dumb and think that’s an important preference , Now another reason she might be saying those preferences to your son is probably her way of being polite by denying your son’s advancements toward her without hurting his feelings ,

[Finchie40]

She probably isn’t attracted to your son and she knows he likes her , so instead of just saying ewww your not my type she is using preferences to deny him on a polite way

[Asker]

Agreed

[Berethor]

She 6 foot tall lover extremist, guys are on average 5 inches taller, so it should be enough.

https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/manlet

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Anonymous]

How old is your son middle school? I’d hope he wouldn’t sexualize her like that. Height preference is one thing, cup size is another.

[baseball_del_tuono]

No no he’s a senior in high school he’s much older than that

[Opinion Owner]

Usually high school is under 18, but whatever the case I don’t feel like cup size is a good comparison to height for teens dating their first time. Even for adults I think it’s kinda vulgar, but underage is a big no.

[NamerOfStars]

Well, no- like Annacarsi said, they're the SAME thing. Actually, height preferences are LESS tolerable, since that's something you absolutely no control over.

[Asker]

What hang on! It’s ok for girls to have a standard bit not guys? That’s ridiculous. Let me ask you this z I’m 4’11 97 pounds and a D cup. What would you think of a guy who said I’ll only date a D cup who’s under 100 pounds!! I’d think he’s got major issues and is incredibly shallow what would you think

[Opinion Owner]

Not about standards, I just don’t think height is the same comparison as cup size for kinds under 18. I said it’s also pretty vulgar for adults too Anna, so it would be lame for a man to tell you that.

[Opinion Owner]

“Kids

[Opinion Owner]

@nameofstars I don’t think it’s the same, but that’s me.

[Asker]

K so scratch that and say they were in their 20s if a 20+ guy said I only dare girls who are a D cup or better and under 100 pounds would you say that’s fine? No you’d say that guy is shallow. And you’d be right

[Opinion Owner]

I already said it’s vulgar for adults too Anna, so it would be lame for a man to tell you that. It’s bad at any age but inappropriate as kids under 18.

[Opinion Owner]

I’d rather have a under 18 son who said a girl didn’t like his height than a daughter that young age who says a boy at school thinks her boobs are too big or small to date. I would think he’s objectifying her and wants sex.

[Asker]

You’re not going to address the question we’re only talking about adults here. You think it’s ok for us to have standards but not guys it’s ridiculous

[Opinion Owner]

We’re only talking about adults when the main question is about your son? Because that’s what I commented on and you’ve decided to shift it into talking about adults and our standards, I don't know why. Also, I comment two different times in response to what you asked about adults, one response was a re-quote of what I already said. So I’m not sure where this “you’re not going to address the question” is coming from.

[Opinion Owner]

Also, don’t twist my words, I never once said I don’t care about a guys standards. For the umpteenth time, and please read clearly: “I said it’s also pretty vulgar for adults too Anna. So it would be lame for a man to tell you that”. That is literally my response, twice, Anna.

[baseball_del_tuono]

Why’s it vulgar for me. To have standards but not women

[Opinion Owner]

I’m just gonna guess you’re mentally impaired, the comprehension here is LACKING.

[SomeRandomGuy89]

Women like to premeditate and create preconceptions of an idea of a man. Ultimately, they don't know what they want and when they find someone they're attracted towards, they likely won't even think on his height so long as it's not abnormal.

[baseball_del_tuono]

I hope so

[SomeRandomGuy89]

@baseball_del_tuono

You're young so let me break it down a little bit for you on the off chance no one already has... women don't actually care what you look like (provided you're at least average).

Put yourself together; hygiene, style, healthy living habits. Have interests and hobbies. Be social and be seen to be social; have a life. Learn how to talk. Have friends.

Beyond that all it takes is a willingness to fail.

These are things almost everyone can do can should do.

[Asker]

This is not true gurus don’t care what guys look like? What makes you think that

[SomeRandomGuy89]

I hyphenated "provided you're at least average".

Looks are not an absolute. Women don't date in absolutes. If a girl says "I only date guys who are 6' and above" she's lying to herself. That's bullshit and if the right guy comes along who is 5'7, she'll throw herself on his dick more readily then she might someone who is actually 6'0.

Why? Because she doesn't actually care about his height. She cares about the association she made for height within her own mind. Whether a man who is 6'0 means to her that he is confident or that it will be viewed by her peers as obtaining desirability, etc.

Women are not visual like men. They can recognize physically attractive qualities but being attractive is only an attention grabber. After that, what elevates desire and keeps that attraction, those are relative to how she is made to feel.

[misogynistic_pig]

The problem is that dwarven women are desperately seeking to impregnate tall men, these women in turn ruin the height of tall men, because the children of dwarf women with tall men are dwarf male children. The son must blame the mother for being such a slut.

[magiusX26]

likely the popularity of this into being a normal standard started as some vocal influencer mentioned this and like so many other things these days, people from multiple generations jumped onto the bandwagon of it being the "in" thing. there have been many such trends as of the last decade or so (likely social media usage linked) such as weed smoking, gluton allergy/siliacs, veganism, (some of) bipolar disorder, vaping.

[bowenw]

People set all kinds of arbitrary physical requirements for an SO. Sadly they do not realize that happiness comes from how well their two personalities work together not superficial things like height or cup size.

[slatyb]

They can say that, but they can't all get it. The 90th percentile is 6 feet one-half inch, so it's maybe one in 8 that is 6' or taller. Some will have to broaden their taste or remain single.

[riverrat3]

Personality does not count much anymore, seems you have to fit a mold

[Guardian45]

Preach Sister!