There’s nothing wrong with preferences. It’s fine! However, these aren't written in stone laws!! My son who is 5’8 and a half was hanging out with this girl it’s his first time kinda dating/flirting/courting a girl. The girls 5’2 and he said he overheard her talking to a friend saying a guys gotta be 6 feet or above no short guys. Wtf !! If my son said she’s gotta have D cups flat girls for me. I’d say unacceptable Dom that’s not how you talk about girls!! You don’t eliminate girls on the basis of cup size!! But for girls to saying this, it’s ok? My husband is 6foot but if he was a few inches shorter I don’t care I never thought about it. He loves me, he’s handsome he protects me, provides for me, and puts me first! Why is the height thing so important all of a sudden? It’s seriously messed up. My son feels like this girl is leading him on now!! I get if a girl is 5’9 and wants a guy who’s at least taller than her I’m fine. But 5’2 girls saying he’s gotta be 6 foot? Why I’m 4’11 I’m not going to start making height requirements lol
It's called a preference.
You can't force someone to date someone they don't want to date.
If a woman only wants to date guys 6'0 or taller that's her choice.
If a guy wants to date a woman c cup or bigger that is his choice.
But both ways should be respectful when turning down someone that doesn't fit what they like
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Some people hold preferences like it’s the most important thing and sadly it is so stupid to do that to limit yourself from someone that could possibly be amazing to you but most people are selfish and dumb and think that’s an important preference , Now another reason she might be saying those preferences to your son is probably her way of being polite by denying your son’s advancements toward her without hurting his feelings ,
She 6 foot tall lover extremist, guys are on average 5 inches taller, so it should be enough.
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Women like to premeditate and create preconceptions of an idea of a man. Ultimately, they don't know what they want and when they find someone they're attracted towards, they likely won't even think on his height so long as it's not abnormal.
The problem is that dwarven women are desperately seeking to impregnate tall men, these women in turn ruin the height of tall men, because the children of dwarf women with tall men are dwarf male children. The son must blame the mother for being such a slut.
likely the popularity of this into being a normal standard started as some vocal influencer mentioned this and like so many other things these days, people from multiple generations jumped onto the bandwagon of it being the "in" thing. there have been many such trends as of the last decade or so (likely social media usage linked) such as weed smoking, gluton allergy/siliacs, veganism, (some of) bipolar disorder, vaping.
People set all kinds of arbitrary physical requirements for an SO. Sadly they do not realize that happiness comes from how well their two personalities work together not superficial things like height or cup size.
They can say that, but they can't all get it. The 90th percentile is 6 feet one-half inch, so it's maybe one in 8 that is 6' or taller. Some will have to broaden their taste or remain single.
How old is your son middle school? I’d hope he wouldn’t sexualize her like that. Height preference is one thing, cup size is another.
Personality does not count much anymore, seems you have to fit a mold
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