How can a tall girl 6ft and over let a short or average man understand that height doesn't matter?

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abc3643 · Accepted Answer

Believe it or not, for a lot of shorter men, they are fine with women such as you. Being short, they have to deal with "heightism" already, so they are considerably much less uptight about it. Don't get me wrong - plenty of women will not date a short man even if he is taller than her, but plenty of women are fine with dating short men about their height give or take a few inches. Few short men would ever outright reject a tall girl such as yourself. For one thing, you have longer legs and that's attractive.

Trust me that men of all heights are usually not that uptight about women's height even with women taller than them. Those who DO care that she not be taller than him are immature and insecure anyway, so be thankful because they are not right for you solely on personality grounds.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

By treating him equally to tall guys. It works the same with tall girls. I tried to talk a woman down off the ledge on here a week ago because she was over 6 feet and insistent that men didn't like tall women. If a person (male or female) has it in their head that their height makes them undateable that's on then. All you can do is not re-inforce that narrative. At the end of the day this woman wasn't budging off her position.

JacobJordan · Answer

With actions. Men are logical. Also the number of women who roast short guys is staggering. So you would need to not only say it but show it. Actions speak louder than words

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Some girls say size matters & other people say it’s not the size of the ship it’s the motion in the ocean that counts. In the case of height most guys date or are in a relationships with girls that are shorter then them. In this case you are taller so if you want to make shorter guys understand about height use your heart & I’m sure they will understand. I’m 6’1” & if you are taller then me I would feel Vertically Challenged.

Saiesh30 · Answer

Oh that's gonna be difficult. Male ego is tough to deal with lol. All I have seen is when a guy starts thinking less of himself, he just continues to do so.

Sunnybeach123 · Answer

I've just never known a girl that would go out with a guy who was shorter than she was.

RedInnocent68 · Answer

Not sure it’s as big a deal as you think it is. Although, you’ve probably got to be dealing with pretty confident guys, which I suppose are few and far between… especially if they’re not assholes! 😂 I don’t mind taller girls… 😉

Wise4myage · Answer

I think all you can do is to just be honest, its up to him to believe you are telling the truth.

renodnol32 · Answer

Actions speak louder than words. Make the move if you like a guy and he's shorter. I'm jnder 6 foot and i was dating a woman 6 ft plus at one point. I feel good vibes and communication is the bulk of it that goes with it.

lightbulb27 · Answer

lean way down and whisper in his ear..., let cleavage show. problems olved.

The-Stud · Answer

Say that you got to hand it to short people ))

nawtee_me · Answer

When you lay down together it all works out…. lol

DryGermanGuy · Answer

She can't. Every since Godzilla attacked Tokyo we understand that size does matter!

Vegasrunner · Answer

in my opinion that's not possible because you're attempting to convince a man if something that's not true.

exitseven · Answer

Do not make it an issue.

Luckycharms12 · Answer

You can't everyone different thinks different

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