Why are men painted as the cheaters when studies show women cheat just as often, and sometimes more than most men?

[Anonymous]

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[Juneberry91]

Cheating should not be based on sex, but Character of an individual. Cheating derives from insecurity & selfishness & ever human experience this. The question is will they exercise it or would they work& rise above it.

But to answer your question I find that women are a lot more vocal about our feelings and experience that has happen to us. Men I have known will tell me things because we’re close. Hello never get out of this huge story it’s this happened and it sucks. Then the are moving onto the next topic.

[HighValue]

Because media often portrays things the opposite of reality to get attention.

One example is men cheating more than women, when in reality it is the opposite.

Another example is White men being bad athletes when in reality White men BY FAR win the most strength contests, most professional fights in mma, and have more Olympic medals than all other groups COMBINED.

Another example is portraying Christian's as bad when in reality Christian churches and charities have helped more people around the world than any other group like that.

Another example is the portrayal of mothers being more important to children when statistics show that single mother households are where 89% of all convicted criminals in the USA come from, but kids in single father households are often well behaved, perform better academically, and are more emotionally stable.

See, media often promotes lies and hides the truth. It has been that way for a long time.

[ManOnFire]

I think you mean men are often said to be cheaters more than women. That's true. Men definitely cheat, but women are cheating too. The difference is that women don't really talk about it, but will admit to cheating only if it makes them look like they're more clever and "hide it better." I personally believe that women do cheat more than men, but that's just me.

I find it ironic when women say how much men are cheating, because if they believe that it's way easier for women to get sex or a relationship, how then could men cheat more than women?

[FreyaRed]

Women cheat before and at begin of their 20-ties. After experimental phase is over most cheating women stop with cheating.
Men who cheat do it as long as they can.
Ergo: The time frame where male and female cheaters operate is much longer by men and this is huge factor in statistics.

[Gibbons44]

So, females cheat until someone smacks them/beats them physically for it, then they 'me too' (I also cheated) and get frightened when approached, yes?

[Asker]

Stats, which are driven by how honest people are. This is a common argument, but based in no fact.

[Gibbons44]

Most of the stats and even research are biased - people lie or mis state or are often so biased about thenlmselves the entire topic end up trashy.
Females are told to set high standards. so they don't end up like their mothers and, in turn, end up alone/childless, since they lie to all about how they feel and what they would accept/be content with.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

It's just like how women gets away with abuse and rape more than men. Something called the Women are Wonderful Effect and a lot of people are sadly blinded by it https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect#:~:text=The%20women%2Dare%2Dwonderful%20effect,women%20as%20a%20general%20case.

[EmyyWolf]

Because men have testosterone you m—ron!

Men can’t hold back when given the opportunity to mate with a female.

So if a good opportunity shows up, that dog/ pig is taking it.

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Men are wayyyy more likely to cheat on their partner than a woman. Because women have estrogen.
We have wayyy more resistance to temptation. Specially once we’re no longer in our 20’s.

[EricSummer]

Even the large majority of men does not cheat if we can believe your data. So you should at least say that "some men" cannot hold back, rather than all men.

[Reem12345reem]

but estrogen is high in women so it increases sexual desires

[Asker]

The interesting thing about your proof, you moron, is that is dependent on women actually admitting to cheating. and dumb ass can make a graph to mirror the point they want. Cut your shit, and come correct the next time if you want respect here. If you can't have a conversation like an adult, then ill treat you like a child.

[CB-Raido-Time]

And if you're blanket stating that all men are that way that makes you a liar.

[EmyyWolf]

Men have always cheated more. Always. ALWAYS.. ALWAYS.
For millennia. For centuries. You can look back in ancient scriptures and men were still cheating more.

Nobody is lying to you. This is been studied for millennia. Just because you want to put women down and tickle your ego. Don’t mean they’ve lied to you.


Nobody is painting nobody as anything. An attractive male will be a player and cheat. An unattractive married man will purchase women and cheat. He will purchase sex. 🤡

So there’s no winning. All males are absolute pigs. I might as well turn to the healthy strong alpha and share him 🥱

[Asker]

You should share an alpha male. you're disposable at best, so it makes sense.

[EmyyWolf]

Lmao a man calling a female disposable. WHAT A JOKE.

Good one! Brad Pitt 👏👏👏👏

[CB-Raido-Time]

RE: Because men have testosterone Men can’t hold back when given the opportunity to mate with a female..

And that makes you a liar. I guarantee you I never cheated on anybody neither of the two ex girlfriends that I had while one at least hinted at cheating on me and the other one was caught doing it. To further point out that you are a liar.

RE: So if a good opportunity shows up, that dog/ pig is taking it

That's why I was called gay for not taking HER up on her advances to get in the sheets because the female ego is so high they can not believe a man a straight guy would pass them up for sex. And because a offer from female to have sex is such a good thing the offer can not be refused by a guy the guy must have something wrong with him he has to be gay to pass her up.

[EmyyWolf]

@CB-Raido-Time
I highly doubt your story of women hitting on you 🤡
If women were cheating on you, I highly HIGLY doubt women were chasing and flirting with you 🤡

[EmyyWolf]

And you passing those women that wanted you UP. WHAT A JOKE , LMAO 😂😭
The lies undesirable, low testosterone,
Insecure men come up with
Get more insane by the day 😭😭🤣

[CB-Raido-Time]

And I could not care less what a liar believes. Liars lie and they deserve their own self deceptions.

[EmyyWolf]

@CB-Raido-Time
You’re talking about YOU then. Cause you’re lying about girls flirting with you 🤡
You mean in reference to YOU 🫵

[CB-Raido-Time]

@EmyyWolf And you are probably one of those hired agitators.

[Anonymous]

It’s not women cheat often. It’s that women admit to cheating. Men will never admit to cheating and play the victim to gain sympathy from others. Including trying to land the next girl he’ll manipulate and cheat on. Women are more honest than men but are portrayed the villains for that.

[Asker]

Women aren't more honest than men. That's why most of you never want anything to eat until we have our food.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

They'll only admit to cheating because they think it was justified

[blueonblack22]

Women do more mental gymnastics to self justify their bs. If they cheat on a guy they will fixate on why they cheated on their boyfriend/husband i. e they will try to gaslight him to feel better.

I had an ex girlfriend so this to years ago. She broke up with me (I knew it was coming). I accepted it but I wasn’t happy. But we parted ways agreeing to be mutually respectful.

A few weeks later I met up with her for business purposes. She then proceeded to give me one of the deepest insults in my life that I’ve ever taken from a woman. I was completely blindsided by what she said to me.

Then one day (years later) it dawned on me what happened: she cheated on me and to see me as less than human to protect her pos ego.

Women definitely gaslight more often than men when they cheat.

[CB-Raido-Time]

Women are more honest than men. That's some good comedy right there gave me a good laugh I tell you.

[blueonblack22]

@CB-Raido-Time that’s not the experience I’ve had. Even if they are “honest” about cheating but that doesn’t mean they are always remorseful about it.

[Greenbins]

Women cheat wayyyyy more then men ! In fact all women will cheat if given the chance !!

[CB-Raido-Time]

The two I had did or at least one wanted to she kept throwing hints and the other one was caught doing it. After the last one I stopped dating and never looked back.

[Greenbins]

@CB-Raido-Time lm sorry to hear this but I feel your pain pretty much every girl I have know has cheated on their SO at least once. Even my mom. .
Dating is over rated anyway.

[Asker]

I wouldn't say all, but just as many women as men would for sure. Weve all been conditioned to thin women are more innocent, but the reality is something many of us have learned the hard way. women are just as capable of the same kinds of deception that men are.

[CB-Raido-Time]

@Greenbins Same here sorry to hear about your situation as well. My experiences was almost 37 years ago. I saw the writing on the wall and never looked back I haven't dated once and I don't intend on ever doing it again.

[Greenbins]

It's so much easier for women and given the right guy in the right circumstance they will do it.

[Greenbins]

@CB-Raido-Time thanks.. the ones the hurt me the most karma took care of them.. so I got the last laugh in the end

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Both men and women cheat equally. The only difference is when women cheat, they think the guy deserved it because she's the victim

[WanderingLoveWizard]

That being said, I've never cheated on. But women have cheated with me, and they always have some excuse.
"He doesn't do this, he didn't do that, he treats me bad..." blah blah blah

[WanderingLoveWizard]

*been cheated on

[Razp_Sorbet]

Men are painted as the cheaters when they are the cheaters. What's wrong with calling someone out?

[Asker]

What question did you read?

[Razp_Sorbet]

This one. Men and women get called out when they cheat. That's it. Nobody is making out that all men are cheaters

[Asker]

That even remotely true. When a couple breaks up, typically the assumption is the man messed up. Women are usually asked what did he do, or told the man deosnt deserve them etc. This is common because its the culture now. If you haven't seen it. Then you're simply not paying attention.

[Razp_Sorbet]

When someone breaks up I asked the person I'm closest to "what happened". Sounds like you're just around toxic people

[Asker]

Fair enough. you're not wrong about that

[Vegasrunner]

@Razp_Sorbet I think he's asking if men and women cheat at the same rate why do we only focus on make cheaters. Typically when a women cheats society still blames the man.

[Razp_Sorbet]

@Vegasrunner that's just false

[Asker]

@Vegasrunner That is what I was saying. And I believe the reasoning for that, is women tend to be more vocal about being cheated on than men. The reality however, is that women cheat just as often as men.

[Vegasrunner]

@Razp_Sorbet Na it's true. When a man cheats on a women society says the man is a dog. When a woman cheats on a man society says the man wasn't good enough for you.

[Asker]

@Vegasrunner the proof is actually in this thread. Most women seem to feel that way.

[Razp_Sorbet]

@Vegasrunner y'all be around toxic women. Jesus.

[Vegasrunner]

@asker I figured as much. You may be correct about the vocal part, however in my opinion there are two reasons.
1) Typically we don't hold women accountable so when a woman cheats people spend more time trying to justify why she cheated.
2) Typically women chase the same archetype of man so it's only a small percentage of men that actually cheat however that's the only percentage of men women recognize so they make the mistake of thinking that it's all men since most people can't see past their own experiences.

[Asker]

Toxic women are everywhere.

[Asker]

@Vegasrunner that's true.

[Vegasrunner]

@Razp_Sorbet I never mentioned anything about women, that's just something you added to justify your error. I'm saying society as a whole views it that way. We typically don't hold women accountable for their errors or call out their faults, so in a heterosexual break up it's much more common for society to blame the ma. No matter the circumstances. Your statements kind of validate that point.

[Razp_Sorbet]

@Vegasrunner I've literally never seen anything like that happen.

[Vegasrunner]

@Razp_Sorbet That only proves you've had little life experience.

[Razp_Sorbet]

@Vegasrunner or ice just never been around people who are like that. Makes sense in a way, the USA and NZ are VERY different socially.

[Asker]

Funny thing is, women here say the same thing all the time. "I've never seen it". The gaslighting is crazy. Admittedly, it's a lot navigating around these women.

[Razp_Sorbet]

That isn't gaslighting...

[Asker]

What isn't?

[Razp_Sorbet]

Me saying that I have never seen it happen. That's not gaslighting... I'm not saying it doesn't happen, I'm saying that I personally have never seen it happen. I'm not trying to twist your sense of reality, I'm just telling you my perspective.

[Asker]

Oh I meant the women here in the west.

[Razp_Sorbet]

You still quoted me...

[Asker]

That being said, consider how different your reality may be as compared to people from other countries when you express what you believe is false. Especially considering that you already know how different NZ and the US are socially.

[Razp_Sorbet]

I literally already said that...

[Asker]

Start that way next time.

[Razp_Sorbet]

There was nothing wrong with the way I started... 😌

[Vegasrunner]

@Razp_Sorbet Just because you personally haven't seen something happen doesn't make it trur.

[Razp_Sorbet]

@Vegasrunner yep, definitely correct. Which also means it's not actually the norm as you have made it out to be.

[Asker]

@Vegasrunner "Nobody is making all men out to be cheaters" where you live. Cut it out

[Asker]

Now I realize I've just been debating with an inexperienced child. Smh

[Razp_Sorbet]

This was a debate? 💀

[Vegasrunner]

@Razp_Sorbet It means it's more plausible to be the norm. You're claiming that the absence of something means it doesn't happen. I'm saying that I've actually seen a large enough sample size to validate that this is the norm.

[Vegasrunner]

@asker I think you tagged wron person I never said anything like that.

[Asker]

@vegasrunner I did tag the wrong person. Anyway, after a look at her profile, it all makes sense. Not only is this girl not from here, she's immature, and it's finally starting to show. So I'm done here.

[Asker]

@vegasrunner It's worth mentioning that this is precisely why it's said that men should never argue with women. Women rarely argue logically, which is why so many women lack the ability to argue with the purpose of finding common ground. What we see here is a girl that simply wants to win an argument. Right or wrong isn't on her radar, and thats why we see the triangulation and gaslighting. This, its not worth arguing with this type of girl, because her perspective has more to do with her ego, than with reality. Best of luck to you man.

[Razp_Sorbet]

Bahahahahahhaha

[Vegasrunner]

This is an easy answer. Women do t typically take accountability for their mistakes.

[Jdjfjcjj]

here's the best answer for you. What does it matter what the reason is. Just take the info, and utilize it to your benefit

[slatyb]

Men and women cheat equally often. That's just math.

[genericname85]

actually women cheat more before marriage and men cheat more after marriage. do what you will wiht that information.

[Anonymous]

Because in women's mind's it's always justified when she cheats. Because when a woman cheats it's usually to get back at him for something she feels he did. 😆😆😆

[notwoke]

well, its' hard for either sex to cheat without a member of the opposite sex so the math here is pretty obvious

[Anonymous]

The same reason why you never see cats doing it behind the dustbins...

[NostalgiaSenpi]

There are too many selfish people in the world.

[ODC2112]

Because women like to complain more than men.

[gag36627]

In offices, majority of women are promiscuous.

[BarryLiverstone]

Alcohol