I would speculate that women cheat as much, if not more than men. First, there is the stigma women face in society if they get too loosey goosey. That's why most women will give you a lessor notch count than real, if you're even allowed to ask the question. There is old joke, if a woman is brave enough to talk about her last, multiply by, maybe even three. If a guys tells his notch, divide by two or even three.
Second, women are the gatekeepers of sex. They can get any amount of sex if they are so willing. Some women love the attention, and don't mind cashing in their chips when a well-off high value man comes along, and that effects all women, not just single ones. Find some chiseled, muscular great-looking man, and many women, even the ones that detest the mating market will change their behavior and their attitude.
Third, most marriage relationships with kids and bills have boring sex. Some women just want some relief. They want to feel sexy and exciting. They know it's wrong, but they have done worse at other points in their life, just one good session is all they need.
Fourth, women also like to cheat on their partner when they get so mad at them. Sometimes it turns into passionate sex with the couple, but if that doesn't happen, if any guy treats her right, he could get lucky. And her partner cheats on her, you can bet this is surely going to be a revenge tactic she will do to get even. She might not tell him, but she will know.
And lastly, the media and social media has tried to destigmatize women having sex. Some women believe they are just as entitled as man to get their sex, having a grandiose narracistic attitude given by all the available attention from social media. That has gotten so bad that some husbands encourage their partner to cheat on them as cuckholds. I was reading awhile back to porn producers that the hot wife weak husband is one of the most popular forms of porn be sought out that didn't exist 10 years ago. It's a kind of role play that both partners can play with in and just out of their bedroom to spice things up. Back in 1960's through the 1990's swinging was where wild couples went. But why party with the group when you can partners readily online that will do weird things with your wife? Of course this is not cheating in the classical sense, depending on the level of role play. Some husbands watch, others stay home and wait for missus to come back tell all. This whole cucking movement is way off the charts about how particularly women view sex. Many expect a semi-quality experience a good amount of time, or the partner will be replaced at somepoint. When most marriage sex gets boring after three to seven years, this is disconcerting.
Do women tell all, even with the people coming up with the numbers? No. Some don't see what they do as cheating, or don't want to admit that they are not really good people who get constant comments from social media for their attention highs and validation. They know it, but not many will admit it. Never openly.
Because they are better in hiding everything
Women are more sneaky about it while men are just stupid and get caught easier
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When a woman cheats, she puts it out of her mind after it has happened, and carries on, as if nothing happened. They are also better at hiding the evidence. I witnessed a woman who had five kids, pick up a random guy to sleep with. Her girlfriend did not like that she would cheat on her husband; and left her, because she did not want any part in her activities.
Women over all see it as a fling, and think nothing of it. When there are gifts involved, then it becomes a side woman type thing, where she is married to one man, and also getting her thrill from another. As long as he keeps their information straight, and they never find out about each other, she is good.
Some women will introduce their lover to their husbands as a colleague or friend, and they will do it in such a way to make if look very innocent. As the husband now knows the other man, and is made to see them as no more than a social contact they will not realize, that she is sleeping with them.
Then you have the business trips; when you have a secretary who your family know about, because their family and yours have met and talked; and then when you have that business trip where the secretary is going with you, and instead of getting separate rooms, you have one room, and one bed, and you and her are doing the other business. And because of the way she carries herself around you in public, no one in either family realizes what is going on. The only time the truth comes out, is either when she gets pregnant, and the child does not resemble her husband, or an audit is done, and the business bill reveal that you often only had one room, an not two. Red flags that there was more going on besides business.
Most of these women cheat because they feel as the excitement in their own marriage has died; and they want to get that excitement back again. They see cheating as a good way to rekindle what they had with their husband when they first got married with a new man. All they really have to do is talk to their husbands, and work on rekindling the excitement in their marriage together.
The excitement of an affair only last during the time of the affair; once it turns into commitment; the excitement dies, and you are looking for a new affair. Women are more open as to what they want, and they also know how to keep their mouths shut, and keep what they are doing secret. Men tend to talk too much, and brag on their conquest. This is why it is harder to recognize a cheating woman.
First we need to define what cheating is to me. As far as I am concerned cheating and adultery are one and the same. The fact that most people now days consider just dating to mean that they are committed to one another and straying outside of that is cheating. Nope, not until we say those vows and commit fully to each other... does being with anyone become cheating.
For those of you who say that a ring covers no hole... if your dick can fit through my wedding ring... you have a small problem that nobody can help you with. Other than get a dick transplant or something. My point is that I know what my wife is doing at all times, just like she knows what I'm up to as well.
We have nothing to hide from each other and we maintain that trust by talking to each about everything and anything all the time. Communication is key in maintaining a relationship and I would be a poor husband if I was not able to know how my wife was feeling at all times.
Hell, if for some reason either of us feels that we not getting the attention that we need from each other... we talk to each other and fix it. We don't go outside our marriage to get what we are not able to get from our one and only... we bring it up and work it out.
So, If you actually care about your wife, you will know what she is up to, just as she will know what you are up to. You can't turn a blind eye to you spouses needs, unless you really don't care about with them anymore...
It is not that either women or men are better cheaters, it is whether your spouse cares enough about you to even notice or care.
Society unfortunately gives women more leeway and excuses for shitty behavior than men. How often do you hear men using the excuse āoh she wasnāt there for meā or āshe wasnāt meeting my needsā when he gets caught cheating? He has zero excuse and heās a scumbag no matter how he tries to spin it.
But women get to do mental gymnastics and gaslighting with their crap. Think of the old movie āliar liarā where Kim Carrey is telling his client (who knowingly cheated on her husband) that āshe was the victim and driven into the arms of another manā. This bullshit also happened on the lost TV series where it is revealed that Sun cheated on Jin because āJin was too busy at workā. And Jin forgives her saying āhe understands because he wasnāt around.ā Seriously how often do you see a wife/girlfriend in a movie or TV script forgiving a man for cheating?
Anyway Iām about 99% sure one of my ex gfs cheated on me a week before we split. I never got it confirmed. We were on the rocks at the time and I knew the split was coming. I know she met a new guy at her new job. I never cheated on her even though I had several opportunities. I did the right thing.
When the break up happened I accepted it even though I wasnāt happy. But I noticed how she completely changed her attitude towards to me like I was the biggest scumbag i the world. In hindsight she was just doubling down to justify her crap out of guilt.
Say what? "Society unfortunately gives women more leeway and excuses for shitty behavior than men." are you freaking kidding me... Let us take a walk throughout our history and the different cultures of the world we live in.
I do believe there was a book called the "Scarlet Letter" that explained what occurs when a woman commits adultery. Men sure di not have to wear a damn mark if they were caught comfiting adultery. A woman's virtue hung on her virginity, the loss outside of marriage... was a dishonor that made exile look pleasant. Your family would disown you, since no dowry would be enough to pawn you off for someone to marry and them to no longer be a bother to them.
I could really become offensive at this point with someone who has no clue just how lucky he is to not have to worry about the things women do. I will now just shut up.
@BethanYou and what time period did the Scarlett letter take place in (and it was fiction).
I donāt care about then. I care about NOW. We could easily go down the rabbit hole here. But I stand by my point above.
@BethanYou bahahaha. You actually just proved my point.
They aren't better. Women get emotionally attatched because they are biologically predisposed to establish relationships based on how a man makes them feel. Men cheat just to be with someone different, without emotional attachments. Thats why women say love so much, because it evokes emotions. Men dont because we are judged based upon our actions and results. Love doesn't have a consistent definition, its conditional and most women dont convey the conditions. You make them feel good but the truth hurts so when they dont like it they will look for someone who will take them as they are. Convey your expectations and cheating won't matter weather you're a man or woman
m Time ago I read and heard from private investigators who work mostly on cheating partners cases that:
- most men that cheat like to, or eventually have the need to brag about it and what they're doing... so they will tell someone or make it more evident, and for many men it was almost as if they wanted to get caught.
- most women tend to be very discreet about it so they were less likely to be caught, therefore the idea of "women are better at cheating"
And then this was quite accurate among the cases and people I actually know, many men I know get drunk and say all the stupid things they do, or get on the phone and call the mistress at 4am and what not... while in the case of women, I've known of women who to this day, have not been caught on their sneaky escapades.
So I would not call it "better", just a matter of discretion
Women are better cheaters because men are more trusting (in general) and women are naturally more easily swayed. Itās almost impossible to change my mind in something unless I just lacked information that would inform my opinion differently.. Iāve witnessed women change who they are overnight though.. so getting a guy to cheat usually indicates that heās always thought about it, or that he found out something about his partner that made him no longer feel the same about their relationship/future. With a woman she could just have watched a show that made cheating look appealing and boom-different person the next day. This I believe also correlated to brain dominance (left vs. right) so Iām sure thereās way more to it but thatās just a light and not too serious response.. (you asked, lol)
not certain but this is just what i think. men tend to be less paranoid than women. when a woman gets paranoid they do the work in order to feel calmer and mostly end up actually being right for being paranoid. so men get caught more. also because of this, men are stereotyped as "cheaters" and women aren't, so men dont always have trust issues like women have. basically what im saying is men dont expect for a woman to cheat. most men at least. women on the other hand, mostly do, and those who have expectations figure things out sooner.
bottomline, women are better cheaters because men are dumber. (jk, its because most men assume women are always trustworthy). *maybe*.
Because you're also better liars than men
We don't have intuition helping us out.
We don't have as many girlfriends that having nothing better to do than gossip and yap on forever and eventually talk about the details of what one of you might be doing minute by minute of every day and note a little discrepancy.
We're not usually as tenacious and vindictive and spiteful and we don't tend to care AS much.
If we get cheated on it still hurts but we move on easier than a hormone fueled rage monster that wants to burn our clothes in the street and prove to the world... that's EXACTLY why we might have been looking for someone else (I'm not justifying cheating).
Off the top of my head, that's my humble opinion. But I'm just one guy.
is it really ābetterā? iām pretty observant. i had a wonderful marriage. But then the last year of my marriage things started to slide. i worked hard to get it back on track. i was desperate to save my marriage. i was blinded , i did not see the signs. She was cheating, she wasnāt a brilliant liar, i was lousy at seeing what was in front of me. And both guys and girls can play either part. no one is ābetterā at cheating, but some one is definitely worse at being committed.
i donāt cheat. so no one is better as itās isnāt a competition. iām committed , she wasnāt.
We can pick a study and unpack it, if you want. Women are sneakier, so they pull it off more successfully than men. I mean, I got stats too. 80% of women initiate divorce. 54% of women will never be married.
I am sorry you got burned. You seem certainly less superficial than most women I run across. I sense you are very passionate. We passionate people lose most of the time. It's the price we pay for taking life seriously.
You are all looking at this wrong. It's the other side that's the problem when it comes to cheating. When a man cheats the other woman gets emotionally attached and ruins it. When a woman cheats the other man can keep the secret. So that's why it seems woman are better cheaters.
The man can keep a secret... and all these men who like to follow women like a puppy dog... don't need to say a word to show everyone what they long for. Talk about emotional whiny cry babies... men can be so pathetically groveling at a woman feet... once they get a taste. We can get what we want when we want... you... would have a better chance with men, just like me.
Women know how to hide it better and are more manipulative. They plan and are more sneaky than men.
I donāt condone cheating but in general weāre better at keeping secrets. The norm with men I've noticed (most of the time) is a lot of honesty and straightforwardness. I canāt believe men trust each other when theyāre cheating on their woman... and most of the time their friends donāt out them! Weāre very secretive as women lol. I wouldnāt trust my own blood with a secret like cheating. Unless I really didnāt care.
It's not that women are better at it, it's just that we're dumb enough to trust them. Give a woman a good opportunity to cheat, and she'll jump at the chance. She knows this, and thinks all men are the same way, and so she watches her man like a hawk.
So the real question here is why men are stupid enough to not keep tabs on their women thinking she wouldn't cheat.
It's easier, dating, and by this I mean just getting a platonic coffee date, is a lot of hard, unpleasant and often humiliating work for men.
To do this secretly us nearly impossible, life hiding a second full time job and a gambling addiction at the same time. Not only does it take time, it takes lots and lots of money. Hard to hide that from a partner.
What facts support that women are better cheaters? I have read and seen stories where a guy had cheated on the girlfriend the whole relationship and they were together for like 7 years. He has cheated on his girlfriend with over 50 women and she never suspected a thing until the very end. I don't really think that men nor women are better at cheating, just depends on how clueless or how much in denial your S. O. other is.
I was absolutely amazed when my ex-fiance could look me right in the eyes and lie about cheating on me. She had no idea that I knew. This happened several years ago. It affected me deeply. I have not spoken to her since... and still have no desire to do so...
Can you tell me your story please! If you would feel comfortable.
@IraqLobster She cheated on me with another guy in college. I found evidence that she was having sex with him in our car. She would call me and say she was studying late, but I could hear noise (bar sounds) in the background clearly indicating that she was not at a library. Other friends spotted her with the guy. Interestingly, she married the guy and had two kids with him. He turned out to be schizophrenic and violent. Karma is a bitch... like she was!
She got what she deserved and i'm sorry you had to go through that.
nice to hear that
Women may as well run the FBI! Our Spidey senses tingle (instincts) and we ultimately know what our other halfs are up to before they do! ... Women are more devious! Which in my opinion makes it easy for us to evade suspicion! We often have more to lose so ultimately we are more careful.
Better?
What exactly do you mean.
I'd say all cheaters are selfish, lying scum. "Better" is a loose term.
Do you mean better at lying? Better at not getting caught? What do you mean?
Ah, so what is your secret?
women are better detectives, and Guys think they are the Best, so why would she cheat?
Better? I had people letting me know that my then wife was out kissing around with whom she cheated on me with. Turned out to be an ex boyfriend. Knowing her she slept with him straight off. I know from past my first date with her she puts out right off.
Anyways, not much when it comes to it when you cheat on someone in the same town you live. Word gets around quick.
Because women are better liars and better at hiding evidence. Guys don't often notice details while women do.
THEY R , I ALWAYS SAY TO ANYONE I DATE, U WANT TO CHEAT, LEAVE , I WOULD RATHER BE DUMPED THEN TO SEE U EVERY DAY AND R THINKING OF ANOTHER PERSON, AND I DO NOT WANT TO BE YOUR SLOPPY 2NDS ON Saturday. OH WOMEN WANT THE DICK , I GUESS THAT WILL BE THE THING
They are not. Because that would imply that it's a skill. Cheating is an act. And it's distasteful whoever commits it. Do not give it bragging rights. It should be shunned and rejected.
When dude's start looking for signs they're girls cheating they feel like their "manhood's" being challenged where as from women it's expected
Simple, Deception is easier for women because women are on average believed to be more honest than men.
Iām not sure this is true but if it is I guess itās cause weāre better at covering our tracks. I defo think guys tend to cheat more though.
Because side chicks tend to get jealous or vengeful. Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. I can't see many side dudes getting upset. They just wanted to get laid so they have little motive to out the female cheater to her partner.
I donāt understand the question? Better in what sense? Men reportedly cheat more than women about 7% more according to the data Iāve seen.
Women are definitely sneakier , I know that full well , the contrast between my teen daughter & my son is very noticeable , she admits to manipulating guys... she is only 14 still ! He is permanently attached to a games console.
because women are smarter than men. Women are better at cheating but men cheat more
Women are sneakier and appear more innocent. I had two boyfriends at two different school and they didn't even know about it until my friend told on me
Women are mych better at reading emotions and picking up on small cues from behaviors. So maybe it is because a woman is more likely have suspicions when their man cheats.
Bkoz few asshole trust the woman.
by the way I love cheaters.
They aren't better. Cheating is simply more expected of men, which allows women to get away with it more.
Probably the same reason men are better at suicide.
We are the bolder sex, for better or worse.
I'm not sure that is the reality. If it is, probably because they are more resourceful than men! :-)
They arenāt better cheaters, they just donāt have to work as hard to get dick as men have to work to get pussy.
Because men aren't allowed to call women out, even by other men.
If true; Probably because they care more to hide it.
yeah I don't think women get caught as often. They're more careful
Smarter! That's the bottom line.. cause Stone Cold said so.💯
The local consensus seems to be that more men cheat, hence with higher confidence, they are better at it, too.
Women take the time to plan it, while men do it impulsively.
Who said women are better cheaters?
Because women lie and do not feel guilt or shame when they are doing something that benefits them.
Ok, It's like this... the only reason I could get away with cheating on you is because you are either to stupid to care or are busy cheating yourself and leaving me wanting what you don't give me anymore... so, I must go elsewhere to get my needs met. I could bring him in and take him into our bedroom and you would not even notice!
Not true at all.
I have never cheated in my life and yet every partner I have had has cheated at the first opportunity.
And it isnāt because I donāt do what I should or any of that bullshit.
Itās because girls have the perpetual grass is always greener mentality and no matter what a guy does she will always monkey branch the second something makes her question her feelings.
Yep, I see why with your attitude you are not or ever will get any. It must really suck to be you. You have that incel mentality, where you feel that all of your problems are caused by women and you hate us for your own shortcomings. You have no clue what women think and worse you have no sense of logic since you just perpetuated a fallacy by generalizing that girls do this. Quite easily proven false with one single exception. Your username is only relevant in that you boomed your attempt at logic.
Your virtue signalling and shaming tactics donāt bother me bud.
I am not an incel or whatever other pathetic term you wanna use to try and win pussy points.
I have had many partners (as my comment mentioned)... they all cheated. How does that mean āall my problems are caused by womenā
But I do find it interesting you said āyou hate US... ā like a female with a blue account.
I know how women think better than most women do. You can claim otherwise all you want. My āfallacyā is easily proven by the actions of females regardless of your denial of it.
80+% of divorces are perpetuated by women because women constantly feel the grass is greener.
So before you respond with childish shaming tactics and virtual signalling bullshit... actually look up some data.
Probably because men don't care that much if they get caught. They just move on to the next one.
Are they? I've been cheating for 6 years and she doesn't have a clue
Better deception. Maybe it comes more natural
They are very good actresses and know how to control their emotions acting all nonchalant
Women lie sill things without a hesitation. Men are fools and would believe it.
There no such thing that puts evil cheaters as better than another one they are bad
there is no being a better cheater
CHEATING IS CHEATING
end of story
Why do you want to be better?
Men tend to brag, women do not
What the fuck? They're both equally trashy.
Researches based on opinions aren't objectively true.
Can't cheat if you're openly poly, just sayin
We're not it is just then men tolerate it more.
We pay attention to details LOL.
Because their sexy bodies hypnotize men āŗļø
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