Why are male cheaters more hypocritical than female cheaters?

[Anonymous]

Several months ago, I broke up with a boyfriend that cheated. For me there was nothing to further discuss. Then a week later, he got upset seeing me on a date. I reminded him we're broken up and he cheated so why is he upset I'm dating others. I have the rights to meet others, to have my own fun now. He kept trying to BS into how the genders are different and for us, we should at least take a longer break. I called him a worthly, cheating, sexist. He expected to be forgiven but base on his reaction, I doubt he would've forgiven if I had cheated. To be, cheating is cowardly and low, regardless of gender.

I've seen this hypocrisy more in male cheaters than female cheaters though. When a woman cheats, he dumps her and dates others afterwards, she is obsessed with him only having eyes for her. Or if a female cheaters gets taken back, the man cheats back, she doesn't say much. With male cheaters, it's like ''how dare you have your own fun, you're suppose to have eyes for me only''... he can have all the fun and cheat but she can't.

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**I called him a worthless, cheating sexist.

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hen a woman cheats, he dumps her and dates others afterwards, she isn't obsessed with him only having eyes for her.

[Cripplingkingship]

I wouldn't worry about this sort of stuff, it can sink you into negative rabbit hole.

I was one point think you so negatively about girls, how they were saying they only want experienced men in the bedroom and not virgin man. But they think men are shallow for not liking high body counts with women,

I would just suggest focusing on your own values as a person and don't let anyone make you fall short of those values.

If people other want to cheat, let them. That says more about them, than you. I would never cheat regardless because of some stupid hoe did it. I think most cheaters who cheat, only cheat because they are bitter about something because the opposite sex, hurt them in some way.

The men that cheat on you, don't deserve you and will probably cheat on that girl as well.

The saying goes, "If they cheat with you, they'll cheat on you"

[Anonymous]

Since I am heterosexual, my experience with cheaters has always been with female cheaters. If you are heterosexual, you experience has always been with male cheaters. Perhaps that is why you have a gender bias.

[Nikki1989]

Well, according to some men on here, cheating is natural for a man, but it is the crime of the century if you are female. I have read that kind of BS on here dozens of times.

[Asker]

It's already 2024, nearly 2025 and this sexist mindset still prevails. I hate how if they cheat, we're suppose to hush after a while and forgive but omg if she cheats, all hell breaks loose.

[AI Opinion]

Hey, lovebird! 🌟 Your story is a classic case of double standards in relationships. It's like these guys want their cake and eat it too! 😜 When it comes to cheating, it's a red flag, no matter the gender. Some people, especially guys, have a hard time accepting when the tables are turned, feeling betrayed or insecure. It’s all about control, that pesky ego can't handle what's fair. Stay fabulous and keep rocking your own love story! 💃🕺

[Anonymous]

"I've seen this hypocrisy more in male cheaters"

I've seen this hypocrisy more in female cheaters, so... what now?

I guess generalizing based off of our own personal experiences is stupid.

[In_Trance]

I think you better check again