Do you think male cheaters are more hypocritical then female cheaters?

[Danielle93]

I've heard and even read a couple stories about the male cheater getting cheated back. He then still breaks up and claims a woman cheating is worse. So he can do it and have sex all he wants to but the woman can't do the same. They cheated and still have the nerve to apply the stud/sloot double standard.

Meanwhile when a female cheater is taken back and her boyfriend or husband cheats back, she seems more willing to work it out and forgives him too.

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Yes the female cheater still gets hurt (it hurts to get cheated on either way) but she doesn't immediately dumped him like many male cheaters do.

[HighValue]

Both are very messed up and not to be trusted. The only time the female cheater would be worse is if they were married because if the guy leaves he can lose lots of things he worked years to attain.

[Danielle93]

Yeah that's not fair. With the exception of still having her kid/kids; after all those innocent kids got nothing to do with the cheater mom they got, she doesn't reserve a single dime nor penny from him.

[Danielle93]

Doesn't deserved

[Tyrael]

I don't think anyone should cheat on anyone else, they should just break up if it's come to that.

[Danielle93]

I think so too. I'll never understand why people still cheat.

[Summeroflove]

It’s 50/50. Cheating is just as bad regardless of gender

[Danielle93]

True but I've noticed male cheaters expect to be forgiven early but several of them don't reciprocate with the same forgiveness if the girl cheats back on him. Female cheaters don't do that too much; they generally will take him back if he cheats back.

[Summeroflove]

Many times cheaters in general are narcissistic and only care about themselves and what they want and their twisted fantasies and kinks and what they want.

Many cheaters will deny and deny. Once they can’t deny it. They will make excuses and justifications for their actions. Very seldom do people who are narcissistic take responsibility and say they’re sorry while also accepting the consequences.

Once their excuses and justifications won’t work they will apologize and not mean it. Because they won’t be able to accept the consequences that might be breaking up or whatever. They just expect to be forgiven and pretend for never happened. Which you can forgive. But not forget. Doesn’t mean there isn’t consequences. Someone whose sorry will accept that reality.

There are cheaters who do cheat and feel bad. Those people have hope for them.

[loveslongnails]

Of course. Somehow, you pose this question almost as if it's kind of a revelation for you, when this is how it's been throughout recorded history.

[Danielle93]

I hate that we're still expected to be devoted and forgive their inidelities, still be the sweet, loyal woman but they (selfish, only about themselves) won't give her a hallpass at least once.
I think they have little to nothing to complain if they get cheated back.

[Danielle93]

infidelities

[loveslongnails]

I agree with you. My "radical" solution remains the same - have an open relationship. Oh no, says the woman, I'm not like that. Well, it's my "theory" that when you remove the taboo, the desire to do it is greatly lessened.

[Berethor]

A man is like a key, a woman is like a lock, so yea female cheaters tend to be worse.

[Anonymous]

No, Because only females will use the excuse " I accidentally cheated" or "this is really your fault" Where as men will just lie about it.

[Danielle93]

LMAO at the "I accidentally cheated" part. How do you accidentally get intimate (whether it was kissing, sex or whatever it was) by accident? Lol

[Opinion Owner]

God right!!! and that goes for both genders by the way. how the hell do you you accidentally stick your dick in someone,, and how the hell do you accidentally impale your self on someones dick!!

[Anonymous]

You've read a couple stories? Lol

[Danielle93]

It's been always like that. The male cheaters won't give the woman a hallpass nor show her the same compassion she's given him by taking him back.
Meanwhile a female cheater that was given a 2nd chance doesn't go to hard on him when he cheats back in revenge.

[Opinion Owner]

I have not seen that at all.

[Anonymous]

I don't cheat

[Danielle93]

Yeah I don't understand why people cheat. I find it irritating when the cheater (mainly make) that's been supposedly forgiven reacts and breaks up right away; total hypocrisy.