Why are men allowed redemption but women aren't?

Question

A woman can be 25 and have 5 bodies, even if they were all bfs and she made them wait she's a slut?

Women can't change, they're iredeemable, no hymen, no diamond. But you can be a cheating slut all you want as a man, be forgiven, and then act like you're this paragon of Christian virtue.

Whatdelusion are some men living under?

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

If men are "redeemable" than women are the ones redeeming them.

Now, I don't agree with your premise exactly, I don't think that is true but what is true is that men and women are different. Men and women are attracted to different things in the opposite sex and the can be unattracted by different things.

WOMEN just don't care about a sexual promiscuous past AS MUCH as men do. Women just don't find a guy's past as unattractive and "gross" as much as men do a woman's because they are attracted by different things.

I don't care if a girl is six feet tall and makes six figures and is really charming and confident and bold and has a lot of status and has 3 degrees. That is irrelevant. A woman would probably be super attracted to all of that. Men and women are different.

When it comes to making a woman his wife. Giving his life to her and making her the most special woman in his life and having children and a family with her, binding all of his finances and assets legally to her... etc., a woman who has already let 30 dudes try out all their kinks and freaky fantasies on her, tasted tons of body fluids of other men, tried out some threesomes, had tons of one night stands, sold nude sex acts on line for money... is not going to be a wife option for many guys.

Not all but more guys in general are disgusted by a promiscuous past then are women.

Men and women are just different.

misogynistic_pig · Accepted Answer

Slut shaming has its origins in the establishment of monogamy and is something that was created by women

With the establishment of monogamy, it was imposed that a man marry a woman and stay with her throughout his life, this with the aim of ensuring that the woman had full access to the man's money and assets, as well as increasing investment parental.

With the aim of persuading men to marry in a monogamous marriage, it was imposed that women had to arrive virgins at marriage, this with the aim that men could not have sex without being married, and thus be forced to get marry.

Therefore, women who gave free and easy sex to men were stigmatized by other women, because these women knew that if men got easy sex they would not seek marriage and women would not have access to their money.

LazerBean · Accepted Answer

Because most women aren't taught well enough to recognize that aan who has extramarital sex is inferior.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

What the fuck are you talking about, man? lmao

Tyrael · Answer

A 25 year old woman with five bodies is not a slut, not even close especially by today's standards.

Women control access to sex, so if they give it away for free that's on them and they're to blame. It's really that simple.

RockyHammock · Answer

Making it through college with a single digit body count is an achievement in its own these days.

What society do you live in that encourages adultery for males exclusively? In mine, America, "lack of commitment" is the most often cited reason for divorce, and women 66% of the time are the ones who initiate the divorce proceedings. In America at least, your statement is completely false.

Filthy_Immigrant · Answer

Cause when we men want sex we want to have sex for the sake of enjoying ourselves and venting out the side effects that sexual frustration brings

Not women though. Women in the other hand USE sex to get rewarded or control/manipulate the men she had sex with

Jackblue · Answer

Well if they ever want a romantic partner they are going to have to drop that attitude. These days even women in the Middle East are doing it before they are married.

Anonymous · Answer

You could say the same about men getting 60% longer sentencing for the same crimes...

Jamie05rhs · Answer

If they were only boyfriends, then she obviously didn't make them wait. 🤷

NostalgiaSenpi · Answer

A man by definition can not be a slut.

Why are men allowed redemption but women aren't?

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