Confusing girl friend?

Question

This girl was begging me to hangout with her and then the day we were supposed to hangout she ignored me all day. she's done this 3 weekends in a row. what do I do

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's understandable that you're feeling confused and frustrated by this girl's behavior. It's possible that she may be dealing with some personal issues or may simply be inconsistent in her communication and behavior.

If this pattern of behavior is causing you stress or discomfort, it may be a good idea to talk to her and express your concerns. Try to approach the conversation in a calm and respectful way, and be specific about how her behavior is affecting you.

It's also important to prioritize your own well-being and boundaries in any relationship. If this girl's behavior continues to be inconsistent or unreliable, it may be necessary to reassess whether this relationship is healthy and fulfilling for you.

It's up to you to decide what you're comfortable with and what you want out of a relationship. If this girl's behavior is causing you more stress than joy, it may be time to consider moving on and finding someone who is more consistent and reliable in their communication and behavior.

WanderingLoveWizard · Accepted Answer

Was she ignoring you, or just too nervous and shy to talk a whole lot? It can be hard to tell the difference sometimes. Especially when they're so nervous they get uncomfortable and want to leave lol

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Treat her the exact same way: ignore her back. If she wants to spend time with you, she will make time for you.

It sounds like she's playing games: she claims she wants to hang out and get to know you, but then someone or something else comes along and she drops you :|

Been there dude: I feel your pain; I really do. Don't wait around or keep asking her to hang out. If she supposedly wants to spend time with you? Let her pick the time and day! That shows she's serious. Otherwise? Don't even bother her.