Do girls appreciate guys with patience?

[Anonymous]

Do girls appreciate guys with patience in all aspects?

[Andres77]

Women like the idea of a patient man. But if she is not or if anybody is not being patient then the patient one seems like a roadblock, the patient one seems indecisive, the patient one might be considered a coward.

this is not an accusation directed at anyone, but we all know that we’ve done this: we like other people being patient when they have to wait on us, some of us take extreme advantage of other people’s patience and make them wait, but we won’t wait for others.

it takes patience to really value patience in others

[Asker]

Very very well said

[mikan_galena]

I appreciate when any person has patience.


Patience in the sense that they can wait for things: If someone that I’m around is *constantly* rushing and forcing everyone else to rush with them, then I take myself out of that situation. I already have enough anxiety for myself, thanks very much.



Patience in the sense that they won’t loose their shit at the slightest inconvenience or issue? Yes please. Patience and emotional maturity is hot. Period. My partner and I never raise our voices at each other. I’ve been around people who will rage when the slightest thing bothers them, and I can’t stand it.


However, there is a limit. Be patient, but stand up for yourself (and the people around you). Don’t let yourself or the people you care about be doormats :)

[Asker]

Very very well said, I like your answer

[jennifer_bloom]

Patience is very important to me. I value patience more than money. So I would choose a patient guy who works at McDonald's over a controlling guy who makes a million a year.

[Asker]

Good answer and yeah I don't think any girl wants a controlling guy

[mommymommymommy]

Don't take forever though. She ain't going to wait around forever

[strawberrybaby3]

Yes, that is extremely important to us. I’ve been with a short tempered man and it makes you feel nervous and on edge.

[Asker]

I see. Sometimes for example if the girl does something wrong I see guys flip out instantly. I find think that's necessary really. Like you said I think a girl gets nervous and then possibly lack of communication happens. I'm a mechanic and usually mechanics have short tempers 😂😂 I would say I'm patience but I say this because many of my co workers are very impatient and they bring that energy outside of work too. I see some yell at there wife for the smallest thing lol

[fonduegirl]

Of course.

There's a thin line between stupidity and patience tho.

[Asker]

Elaborate on your answer please, give an example

[fonduegirl]

Like say a guy is dating a girl who's way out of his league. He considers himself very lucky. That's nice.

[fonduegirl]

But then he finds out she's popular but she's still a virgin and she wants to wait for at least an year in a relationship before any sexual stuff happens. In this case, he should be patient.

[fonduegirl]

Then he discovers that he always initiates texting, always pays for lunch, pays for bills and stuff, and in return she doesn't even ask him how was his day. He keeps pursuing her. That's stupid.

[Asker]

Ok i see exactly what you;re saying. Would it bother you if he gets mad easy or same concept you;re you explained?

[fonduegirl]

Mad about what?

[Jazzy54]

YES. Absolutely. I love a patient man. 😌

[Asker]

elaborate on that please, for example he doesn't get mad easy?

[Jazzy54]

Correct. I wouldn’t be able to deal with a man who has a quick temper.

[sassy_receptor]

very much so

[Asker]

Elaborate a little on this. Would you not like him if he couldn't control his temper or get mad easy for example?

[Molly1997]

I do

[Asker]

Would you not like the guy if he got mad easy or couldn't control himself for example

[Molly1997]

No I’d still like him

[Asker]

Why is that? would you be worried he would be controlling at time or you'd just go with the flow?

[Yannishka]

I only want those.

[Asker]

What's an example of this you can say?

[Yannishka]

People who have no patience can rush into a mistake that could have been avoided, had they prepared and planned more.

[Iron_Man]

I hope so