Do girls like persistent guys?

[Shpongolia]

Persistent as in he won't give up on her easily if she turns him down. I'm not implying that he is so persistent that he won't take no for an answer; that's just offensive and creepy. But persistent as in he tries to convince her that he is worth her while if she dismisses his advances at first.

Would you girls find this admirable or annoying?

[shock-n-roll]

It depends.

It could be cute sometimes but it must not carry on for too long.

If she fancies them she would like a little of chasing at the start, but later on it might even burn the fire down.

I think if you do it in a jokey way it would be the best. Then it's more admirable.

You start to find it creepy when they start using bigger words to get you interested. Such as " I would love to take you out, you are so beautiful" ( Keep that for later stages)

I think, never beg, begging is not cute.

Use words like," I know you would love to",

"Think about it" "5pm at Costa, I don't take no as an answer" and a cheeky smile.

If she doesn't look amused, back off she's deffo not interested and not going to be.

If she's interested she might say I can't and you two will plan another time, if she gives you even a little smile, You are in ;)

Hope that helped:)

[sykitty]

Depends on how well he knows her. If it's just a girl you met at a cafe/bar/street, NO. That is nearly always creepy. If it's someone you've met through mutual friends, go for it. You've got that connection to sort of "vouch" for you, which makes you more than a total stranger.

Trickier is if you've been friends a while. If she really wants to forget it and go back to your friendship, maybe you should. But chances are, she won't *really* forget it. It'll change your relationship regardless, so... proceed with caution, I'd say.

[Ogasmic]

It depends why and how he is being persistant. If a girl keeps dismissing you don't keep going at it like her feelings are a brick wall you just have to break down or a difficult game you have to beat. Back off a bit and try talking to her normally the next time you see her. If her response is positove try again in a day or three. If she rejects you again, well, you did your best

[Anonymous]

I think emotionally mature women appreciate a persistent guy if he is genuine. I think girls divide guys into 3 groups. The guys they r sure about, the guys who have no chance and the guys they r not sure about. If she is not sure about u, then persistence may give her a chance to be convinced. If u have no chance persistence is called "annoying or creepy " If she is sure about u then your persistence is welcomed with laughter and smiles as she says no or if you love on and she misses u or gets angry then she really liked your persistence

[Yeahhbro]

difficult question to answer...On one hand it shows that you go after you like, that you have balls, that you are not afraid to pass some obstacles. On the other hand it might make you look like a creep if she doesn't like you at all.

Personally I would be persistent wheter I get good or bad results. It is better than just giving up at the first try.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

If I turn you down and you're still trying to convince me, that's not taking no for an answer. I'm gonna be honest,I play games with guys like this when I'm bored.

[Anonymous]

I don't really see where "won't give up easily", "trying to convince her that he's worth her while after she dismisses his advances" and "won't take no for an answer" differ.

I really, really don't like it when guys I've turned down don't get the hint. It makes me feel like the guy doesn't have any respect for my feelings or doesn't believe that I'm capable of making decisions.

[tadpole25]

depends

if she doesn't like you and you persist, it's creepy and makes you less desirable

if she likes you and is just playing it cool, the assertiveness of it can work

[Stacyzee]

It depends.

Is this girl interested but playing hard to get?

If she isn't, and the guy ignores her requests at not wanting to date

then it can quickly become annoying.

[RedSmartie]

No. If she doesn't want you, she doesn't want you. Give up. Being persistent is just pathetic. Someone should want you as much as you want them.

[haylee_ann]

it's a good thing :) it makes her know you trul care

[Anonymous]

I'd say there is a fine line between creepy and nice. I have enjoyed it in the past before when a guy friend kept working at it until I was comfortable and ready. Other times, if people have been very persistent it has freaked me out.

[Anonymous]

when women do it, its sexy

when guys do it, its sexual harassment

[courtney06]

when women do it they are labeled as "that psycho girl"

[Opinion Owner]

um, only if they ugly, otherwise its kinky

[MikeK]

Exactly - women can pull it off with no repercussions

[pips1]

somewhat admirable but it cud also begin to irrate me depends how he advances

[MikeK]

I think ALL would... ALL just like to f*** with guys - whether or not you'd have success with one is completely up to them

[Anonymous]

it really depends. but I think more than often not she is saying no for a reason and not playing a cute game and wants to be left alone.

[Faithblossom]

If I really like you that would be a plus for you. I wish there were more genuine guys like this around and dosnt so it just for the chase.

[Shpongolia]

Well if you really liked him, why might you turn him down the first time?

[Anonymous]

If you kept on bugging me at least Id notice you more so maybe its a good thing..

[Anonymous]

it depends, sometimes its flattering but too much can be really annoying

[Anonymous]

Very undesirable.