Do men ever regret or feel bad about what they've done to women?

[Anonymous]

Do men ever regret or feel bad about what they've done to women? Or do they just bottle it up...

[PHILR]

in what way like cheating on them or dumping them uncermonously for no apparent reason . just trying to clarify the question here or is it like a blanket question covering anything bad a guy might have done.

if a blanket question then it depends upon the type guys they are

1. a jerk/ badboy or player type guy most likey not because basically their out just for themselves and what they want anyways and really don't care about the feelings of others.

2. the intermediate type guys these are the ones that have alittle badboy and nice guy mix to them . in their case would have possibly a mix out of the group some may regret others may not but feel some remorse in a way.

3. these guys are the ones that get over looked and many times don't have a chance to do anything wrong because they don't generaly get the girls as a rule . yet if by a miracle they did have a girlfriend it would drive them crazy until they did apologize .

just my thoughts on this subject and question

[Anonymous]

Yes. I try to have a balanced relationship and work things out. Sometimes, like now, I have to be an a**hole because I am being victimized for loving a woman. I than pull out my Leo persona that I am stuck with and I tear it all up. I never cheat, I don't really even ever flirt. I just want one woman. I don't believe it is possible anymore.

But, I keep it fresh in mind, and constantly analyze my actions and wonder if I am being fair, could it still work? Can it be fixed. I put all of myself in and it failed. I will vent it all and find closure, that is thoroughly what I do, I don't look back when it is justified or necessary. Otherwise I will try to repair the damage I do.

[acka72]

Just as long as they don't rape or tell a girl they love them just to get laid everything is fine and a woman chooses how she wants to be treated.

[chettah-two]

Yeah of course, but they is a little shelf in my head were I put all the evil stuff I've done and lock it away.

Occasionally I may open it, feel bad for a while, try to rectify it, if I can, or think oh well sh!t happens.

One think I know it will explode and those stuff will come and bite me in the ass one day!

[BeerME]

Depends on the guy and what he's done. Some guys won't really feel bad no matter what. Some guys will feel terrible about things that really weren't their fault. Personally, there are certainly a few things I regret, but only a couple of things that I really beat myself up over.

[OfAfricandescent]

Yes I regret the way I rejected one girl, just because she put herself out there. I wasn't attracted to her, but something happened when I was drunk, and 'cause I was young at the time, I didn't handle it in the best way.

[Asailum]

well if they do most aren't gonna show it very easily

[Anonymous]

Just the ones I actually cared for. The one's I don't they were probably a bitch so no, they can rot in hell as far as I'm concerned.

[27funcountrygirl]

What got you to care for some and not the others? What are things a woman you care about has done to get you to care about her? What has the woman you don't care about done to make you hate them or not give them a time a day? Just Curious:)

[sha256]

of course unless they're heartless but 99% of us just bottle it up

[Xx_DRE_xX]

I have, tried to make up for it, but go sh*t thrown back in my face. I guess that's fair though.

[Habakkuk]

not me, I'm a nice guy

[Hartmut]

What did I do?