A perfect girl: does she exist?

[Sexiestjohnson]

Do you think there is such a thing as a perfect girl and what is your definition of perfect?

Yes she exists

No she doesn't

I have met a perfect girl

I have never met a perfect girl

[nolabels]

Keep dreaming, bro, if you want to live in a fantasy world. No offense meant, at all.

There are women who will be more suited to being with one particular guy better than others will, and vice versa.

There is no perfect girl, or anything, for that matter.

[Sexiestjohnson]

Thanks Chief. I appreciate your shared thoughts. I'm thinking it may just be our definition of perfect. Biblically perfect means someone who is merciful or one who possesses enduring kindness. If we define perfection this way, I think we may have met one or two almost perfect girls.

[nolabels]

Ah, well, you speak, more then, of another realm than to that which I generally alluded to.

While I would say that you're most likely on a great track in your thinking, I still would never expect to find a perfect anyone.

That, to my way of thinking, would be too beautiful for any human to be able to experience and not be somehow fundamentally changed.

Cheers to you.

[Sexiestjohnson]

Wow. Your words are so intelligently crafted. Thanks a lot. I truly enjoyed the light your thoughts brought me.

[nolabels]

I can tell that you're a thoughtful, intelligent person.

Enjoy your life.

I hope to see you around on G@G.

[Sexiestjohnson]

Thanks Chief. Same here. Thanks for your intelligent words.

[Kevininja363]

There is no such thing as the perfect person. No one is perfect. Marriage is about helping each other grow as individuals physically, mentally, and religiously.

[Sexiestjohnson]

Thanks. Are you saying if we are all mature, we wouldn't need marriage anymore?

[Kevininja363]

Some people are called to marriage some are not. If we are ALL MATURE we would all get married or answer our calling. But waiting for “the one” is setting unrealistic expectations on someone who probably doesn’t exist. Marriage is about growth which is different from maturity. You can be mature yet need room to grow as a person.

[Sexiestjohnson]

Wow. This is wise. Thanks.

So it is all about growth and not just maturity. Helping one another achieve our goals or fulfill destiny. How then do you find this person?

[Kevininja363]

Sometimes you know immediately, sometimes you don’t. Work on yourself and the path you’re meant to be on will show.

[Sexiestjohnson]

Thanks Chief. Your words have helped me in no small way.

[Kevininja363]

No problem! If you want to learn more I recommend a book called “The Dating Blueprint by Jason Evert”. It has a lot of knowledge about what we as men should know about dating BEFORE starting to date. It will help you realize some things that you will need to work on.

[Sexiestjohnson]

Okay. Thanks. I will get the book.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Nah, but maybe in terms of looks.

Describing My Ideal, Dream Girl

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I think there are at least ones where, when I weigh the odds, given my looks, age, social status, income, etc, my odds of finding a better are slim to none. And that's my wife!

[Sexiestjohnson]

Wow. She is one lucky Queen.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

I do love her more than anyone else! I'm just not into this way of romanticizing. I'm a STEM type and a little bit obnoxious that way.

[Sexiestjohnson]

Okay. I admire your ideology.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Cheers!

[exitseven]

I tell my wife that she is not perfect but she is perfect for me.

[DextroShade]

Nobody is perfect in general but my wife is perfect for me because she beautiful, feminine, and based.

[BlackJeep]

The perfect girl does not exist. And if you put her on a pedestal then all you are is a fan.

[Sexiestjohnson]

People say she doesn't but I know she does. This is because my definition of perfect is kind or merciful or lovin

[Anonymous]

I'm sure the perfect girl exists. She's probably married to some other guy. The left over women are hard work.

[Sexiestjohnson]

Lol. This is friggin hilarious😂

[TrueConfection]

The perfect girl for you exists.

[May1787]

By nature perfection doesn’t exist.

[Anonymous]

They exist to the right person

[Sexiestjohnson]

Beautiful reverse psychology. Would you define yourself as the right person? Do you think we can be "right people?".

[Opinion Owner]

We can be the right people to the right person

[Sexiestjohnson]

Would you define a person as perfect if they are only right to the right person?

[Opinion Owner]

Of course

[Sexiestjohnson]

A Rabbi once disagreed with this philosophy. He said perfection means being right even with the 'left' people. Don't you agree?

[Opinion Owner]

i dont.
rabbi or daddy or whoever tf they are can fuck off

[Sexiestjohnson]

Okay. Thanks for the light you gave me with your thoughts. 🤍

[clampfan101]

No one is perfect.

[Sexiestjohnson]

Good to know😇