Yes, I was just thinking about this today, actually. I was thinking about it because, in addition to the advantage of now having a woman to cook and clean for them, they now have more women interested in them. And despite all of these advantages for men to marry, men have it so good and easy that girls have been raised to beg for men to agree to marriage! How ridiculous and unfair is that! Girls are raised to value and prioritize marriage as a goal without actual reasons to value it, apart from social status of course. Men, on the other hand, are raised to disvalue marriage, and can afford to do so (despite the mentioned advantages it gives them), because women will take the responsibility for the men in terms of valuing marriage, and do all of the work encouraging the men to realize its value. Meanwhile, the men get to have peaceful Christmases whereby no one makes them feel guilty about being unmarried. Women on the other hand, cringe Christmases for this reason if they are single.
As to why married men are attractive? Maybe it's the same idea as a woman that dresses provocatively who makes men think of sex, and that she'll be an easier target for sex. Married men make women think of marriage, so women then assume that there will be less convincing of the guy to do in terms of the value of marriage. similarly, women who dress provocatively give men the idea that there will be less work to do in terms of wooing her to have sex with him.
m I am married and I am mostly interested in a married man. Maybe thats where the "theory" has its origin? But Generally I am not more interested in a men because he is married, more so the opposite, as long as its not my husband.
Personally it makes me loose all interest if I had any to begin with
Ew no. I instantly lose my attraction to anyone who’s taken.
Some do. I have desire for gems yet to be discovered.
I did and I am married.
m i do
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