My girl made a mistake and caused a misunderstanding between us, why does her doesn't want to explain?

[Anonymous]

[slatyb]

Why do you believe it's her mistake? Blaming is not loving.

[Asker]

I asked her out, she said she dated someone else, which she did not (I did not know).
How will you feel if you were me?

[slatyb]

She did nothing wrong. Until you understand that you will have little success dating I would feel that I asked that and she declined. I would move on. When you ask a woman out, there are only two answers: yes and no. That's was a no. Ignore the rest. She does not owe you a reason, and can say anything that will make you go away quietly.

[slatyb]

And in no way is she "your girl". That's another idea you need to get over.

[Asker]

She was waiting for me the next day. How would I know that? She says she dated someone. How you feel?
The next time I saw, I gave her a disappointment look, she went to hide and cry. Why won't she explain.

[Asker]

We already know each other for over 3 years.

[Anonymous]

Excuse me? You’d have to be more specific.

[Asker]

I asked her out, she said she dated someone else, she was waiting for me the next day.
A guy ask you out, you say you dated someone else, you already hurt him hard, how do expect him to know you are waiting for him the next day.
You must explain. Why won't she.

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t really know. I’m guessing her other date didn’t work out, so she kept you on the back burner and expected you to oblige. I’d forget her. Find a nicer woman.

[Asker]

She dated no one. I don't know why she used that reason and waited for me.

[Opinion Owner]

Seems silly.

[Anonymous]

Have you asked her?

[Asker]

Nope, x_x.