This girl from gym now has a job at my pub?

[Anonymous]

i had seen a lot of her at my gym when i went there a lot more often during the winter>spring , i was kind of obsessed with her to be honest , just had it going on and type of girl i was really into but she had a boyfriend and seemed ok that i noticed her but also maybe felt i was a bit too into her considering the circumstances.

anyways hadn't seen her for like a month and never knew where she worked , but all of a sudden she has a new job at my local pub as a server. i noticed her there today but her shift ended just as i arrived so never got a chance to talk to her but was definitely her , same girl from the gym.

i'd like to talk to her , just sort of break the ice there as i go to that place a lot and want her to feel comfortable with me being there too. i actually think once she gets to know me better there will actually be a lot more comfortable with me

[WhitneySnow]

That sounds like a good idea. Did you talk to her at the gym? How did it go?

[Asker]

so was pretty independent at the gym , mostly went by herself , we always noticed each other but never like talked , she seemed kind of ok most of the time that i obviously had a crush on her but that was the gym , pub i'm more social , will definitely talk to her there eventually when i get a chance to do so

[WhitneySnow]

Sounds great. Go for it.

[exitseven]

Go for it. Maybe she broke up with the guy.

[Asker]

no there still dating , but is other girls who work at that pub who have boyfriend's that i talk to and get along with well so i don't see the issue in being friends with her there in that sort of environment

[exitseven]

Make as many female friends as you can. You never know what will come of it.