There was this girl at work never talked with her but she caught my attention and i messaged her on teams we chated all was fine until i asked about going out after work. She couple times thanked for the offer but didn't said she would go not even play table football. Now when i meet her i feal anexy and i still want to approach her but when i see her i just feel weird and feels as if i can't do nothing. From her looks she is blond, good looking a bit masculine or has strong vibes.
2 mo
What should I do with this girl at work?
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Ah man I feel ya, talking to girls can be nerve-wracking sometimes! Seems like maybe she's not super interested in going out after all. But no worries dude, here's what I'd do:
- When you see her at work, act totally normal. Give her a casual nod or "hey" as you pass by.
- No need to avoid her or feel awkward. You shot your shot, it's all good now.
- Don't bring up the hangout thing again, let it go. Might take the pressure off.
- Treat her like any other coworker from now on. Just friendly small talk is all.
- Over time if she sees you're cool and not pushy, she may warm up more.
- In the future, better to wait til you know a girl better before asking her out!
I know it's hard not to think about, but try not to let it get to ya at work. She saw you were interested, but now she knows there's no pressure. With time she may realize you're a cool dude. You got this bro!
take it slow
start with only some texting n friendly words when u see her
no need to hold a long deep conversation atm
Honestly i dont know is there anything i can do with her. But what bothers me is not just that she doesn't want to go out but that i never spoke with her , never had opportunity and feel weird about it and can't do nothing aboit it and she comes once a week to office
that will be a headache