The girl at my job that I like?

[Anonymous]

There/s a girl at my new job that I like. However, I don't try to approach her for one because I'm still new there...like a month now. Also, I don't know her that well yet. When I talk to her, I tend to smile and look her in the eyes as I talk. if she needs help, ill ask her if she wants it. One time I was helping a customer and I asked her for her opinion on the matter, and she stood right in front of me with her booty damn near touching my leg...she always wear tights. One other time, she was near me again but her breast gently was touching my arm, something I think she may have done on purpose...idk. Anyway, I have her number and yesterday I texted her about going to work and we exchanged like a couple texts and that was it.

A couple days ago, I had to clock out and she came to take over so I stayed a few extra minutes to help her clear some stuff out, it was a lot of work left. As we worked we talked and she asked me questions about my past and education and what she would like to do in her future. I listened and had a great convo with her. When I clocked out, I said bye to her and shook her hand and told her to give me a hug, and she did with a kiss in the ear, Latino thing lol.

I don't want to chase her much at all but I do like her. I don't wanna text her out of the blue because I don't want to appear creepy or like I like her alot. I heard that she may like this other guy tho at the job...he tends to make fun of her alot, almost being mean so idk...

Idk what to do: all I have been doing is talking to her, smiling and whatever and when she came in yesterday and saw me she came over to hug me... I know girls like to take things slow and tend to go after guys who don't chase them much but I don't know if I should keep doing what I'm doing or what...

i don't want to ask her out and make the work environment between us, weird. Any suggestions or should I keep doing what I'm doing until she gives a picture that she likes me too

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+1 y

Ok this girl and I are pretty cool still. I give her a hug a day lol and we're generally good in conversation. I don't try to impress her rather I just talk to her like a good chill friend. Thing is tho is that when I text her she will text back a couple times but then eventually stop so I don't really push anything...any recommendations or advice. I can't tell if she likes me but I do know that she always pulls on her hair when we talk in person...idk if its a nervous habit or what

[stonetemple]

Well I don't know about you but I don't like easy girls. I mean putting herself so much out there hmmm when you said that her booty was almost touching you and then her breast. From experience I really do not mix work and relationships, not a good idea because if something happens then everybody will know and if she or you have a girlfriend/boyfriend, wait till people tell him/her. At the end I will treat her as a friend no more than that. I made that mistake before and it was hell every time I had to go to work plus I had a girlfriend at the time and when people told her, I was in so much trouble. Almost f*cked a good relationship for an easy booty which it should've been just a friendship. Also thinking about it now that I'm older that wasn't right because I would'nt like my girlfriend doing that to me and besides that sh*t happened to me anyway. I think KARMA really exist and it showed me how what I did to my girlfriend felt and its not a good ride bro. If you are alone, only be her friend and if you are in a relationship why complicate your life.

P.S: don't do sh*t to others because it will come back to you three times worst! I learned the hard way >.<

[jesshkah]

Yea I think you're doing all the right things so far. Like you said, you're still kinda new, and you don't know if she's just flirty with everyone. or friendly, or if she actually is into you. So yes, wait a bit longer, keep doing what you're doing, and if she is interested, she'll probably make it known. If you want to, I think you can text her outside of a work setting, but that's a little forward and some girls may or may not like that.

[ArabianPwincess197]

Invite her over, talk to her more, smile at her, offer her your help - have a laugh with her - basically do anything that makes me realize you're the pros of being with you are more than the other guy - especially if he is mean to her. Also, talking to her more and having a laugh with her could lead to her liking you more than a friend eventually.

[girl2211]

Do NOT date someone you work with. No just no.

[Asker]

didnt say I was going to date her...just wondering what's going on

[girl2211]

You said you liked her...I was just saying don't do it. It will end bad. If you want to know what's going on grow some and just ask

[Asker]

if you are going to be rude with your "grow some" gtfo off my question and get a life. Simply put. Why don't you grow a damn brain and learn to use some common sense...moron