How come girls said they don't care about money or a guy status but they make exceptions for guys with money and status?

[chris_987]

So a lot of younger girls will be weirded out by my age like if I talk to a 21-year-old. But if I say Chris Brown and Drake are older than me they'll say, but you're not Chris Brown or Drake. They're probably too dumb to realize that it isn't the age that's important, but the guy's fame and money is what they really like about a guy.
But that's what happens when you know women better than they know themselves.

[kylee2437]

I disagree with this completely. Any woman that goes for Chris brown or Drake are just groupies that are going to be treated like garbage. Chris brown and Drake can get whoever they want, they are never going to settle down. 2. The reason why people have issues with 35 year old men going for 21 year olds is because 21 year olds really have nothing to offer in terms of a serious relationship typically. It looks like the 35 year old has issues with women his age because the women his age won’t put up with the bs he spews. I was 22 dating a 33 year old and I can confirm exactly this. Usually the older people in the situation have severe issues.

[chris_987]

I don't know about all that, a lot of women just like older more confident men. Literally everything your looking for in a guy could be boiled down to how old he. Especially since women believe that they mature faster than guys. So by their own logic they wouldn't even be attracted to guys their own age.

[kylee2437]

@chris_987 associating age with maturity doesn’t correlate per say. That 33 year old was the oldest I’ve dated and he was the most immature man I’ve dated

[chris_987]

Neither does gender correlate with maturity but that's just what women believe. I don't believe any of it. I'm just using their own logic against them.

So believing women mature faster than men. Then a woman at the same age as a man is more mature. That's what they believe. So by their logic they should date older so that they can be at the same maturity level or Maybe they want a guy that's higher.

Again, I don't believe any of this stuff. I'm just using their logic.

[kylee2437]

I once believed going for older equals maturity until my young age and me going for older resulted in an abusive relationship. Often times an older guy goes for younger because younger is willing to put up with more as she has been through less and knows less.

[chris_987]

I don't know about all that, guys are mostly looking for respect. You can't compare your one abusive relationship and map that on to every guy. I think most girls are looking to be led in relationships and in order for them to submit to a guy so that he can lead her, she has to respect him first. And a lot of girls unfortunately. Don't respect guys they feel equal to. So whether he's older or has more knowledge than her or has more money than her, she has to feel like he can teach her something in order for her to respect him.

That's just how a woman's brain works unfortunately.

[kylee2437]

Sorry I disagree. My one abusive relationship is unfortunately very common and I will never associate maturity by age. I know so many people older than me that mentally, physically and financially will never have it together, and you can tell by the way they lead their lives. Even my friend that is having an affair with someone that is almost 50. I’ll never look at a man cheating as a man that is mature and head strong. He’s 50.

[chris_987]

I'm going to stop you right there abuses relationships are not common. And I refuse to have a conversation with people who believe all man are hitting women. Just go see therapy before you engage in any conversation.

[kylee2437]

Abusive relationships are very common - you denying that is absurd. He in denial all you want- one of the 2 celebs you mentioned has been abusive in a relationship

[Spongebobssocks]

I would never date chris brown or drake. Infact id they touched me I'd go take a long shower..

Avarage man is much better

[chris_987]

So your not attracted to any guy that's a celebrity just because he's a celebrity

[Spongebobssocks]

Not just because he is a celebrity but it is something I wouldn't like

[chris_987]

Your not making any sense but okay

[kylee2437]

She’s making perfect sense. She realizes celebs don’t have much to offer and often look as average women / women in general as objects / accessories

[Spongebobssocks]

@kylee2437 exacly!

I want something serious and that will never happen with a guy like Drake or Chris Brown. Plus I wanna live a private life