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It's would be stupid to only want to date guys that are 6' which is less than 15% and be surprised that he cheated on you.
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Whenever there is a side girl situation, why does everyone attack the girl more than the guy who is cheating?
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I always see you on this site asking some redpill, borderline incel question because you aren’t chosen by your preferences of women. I just wonder what you gain by asking questions like this?
Anyways, I’m a tall woman (5’9”) and I have a preference towards men who are 6’0”+ and have never had a problem finding that. If he cheats, he’s going to cheat regardless if he’s short or tall. You keep pulling up statistics to base your arguments instead of actually going outside and experiencing life and wonder why your luck with women is the way it is.
I've been asking questions like this before red pill was even a thing, the stuff I observed about women have been doing so for at least 10 years. I know people like you are too dunce to observe human nature and recognize patterns. So instead of shaming what you don't understand. Let the higher IQ people solve the world's problems.
Ideally you'd want one man to settle down with, so chasing after guys above 6 feet and not being able to start a family means you've failed as a female. But again your too dumb to recognize that if you're choosing guys that cheat on you, you're not their first option so you'll be a female incel before you realize it.
So in 10 years of complaining about the woman you’ve want not wanting you, where has that gotten you, may I ask? Have you developed any qualities that you do have control over to make yourself more desirable or have you just accepted your fate?
There’s a lot more to why a man wouldn’t be desirable to a woman and it doesn’t begin and end with the height of a man. I know plenty, PLENTY of women who have boyfriends my height and shorter (and maybe they do have a preference for a taller men but guess what, their boyfriends have a preference for bigger boobs and butt)
Second, I’ve never been cheated on. My current boyfriend right now is 6’2”. Since you’re so big on statistics please show me the statistics that say tall men cheat more than shorter men.
I am frankly not interested in dating a man under 6’0”, especially if he’s as whiny about it as you are, and I can tell you right now, even if you were 6’0”+ you seem to have so many other undesirable traits as a potential partner it probably wouldn’t matter.
This. You tell no lies. Redpill is just a social media term for misogyny. Of course it’s not new, OP. 😂
Women aren’t choosing a “minority of men.” People are still getting married, and in my experience they’re even marrying terrible men who bring nothing to the relationship.
I know girls well enough to know that you don't really care what I think, I'm just an incel who doesn't get girls remember. All you guys want to do is call guys misogynist and then block them so you can feel better about yourself. I don't know why girls get off on insulting guys in them blocking them but that's just the way you guys are.
If you really cared you can DM me or ask for my WhatsApp. But you guys won't so have a great day too.
Your thoughts about women are the reason perhaps that you’re single? Women don’t want men who disrespect them or women as a general group. Gaslighting us isn’t helping your cause.
Why would you want women who don’t agree with you to DM or WhatsApp you? Are you desperate that you will accept women you don’t even agree with?
I said what I said, also defined misogyny for me
I don’t have to define misogyny for you. You can do that yourself. There is google and dictionaries and asking a woman to define it for you is exactly something women are saying is exhausting.
Why would I argue with somebody that doesn't even know the definition of words? I was just proving a point of how dumb you are
Haha, because you’re too dumb to look up the word that means I’M the dumb one? I do know what misogyny means, that’s why I used the word. I’m not arguing with you. You’re a straight up misogynistic fool. Haha…😂😂😂😂
Yeah if you knew what the word was you just tell it to me but because you didn't know you told me to go look it up. Life must be hard for someone. So dumb
You obviously write stuff like this so you can get the interaction with the opposite gender you don’t get in your daily life besides a look of disgust. Too bad you can’t see my face because I’m giving you the same.
Does not apply to every question posted on here? I know girls are asking guys the same questions about if guys prefer small breast or a big ones the guys in real life. So I don't get your point. This website was literally built to ask general questions to a wide variety of people.
I honestly don’t think it has to do with how the person looks. I feel like they were blindsided by the person. especially when you got this narrative of them in your head, it’s hard to believe it that they could ever do you dirty.
I just read somewhere that 80% of women on hinge have there dating height preferences for the guy set to 6' or above. I'm just saying if most girls chase a small percentage of men. It's more likely that the guy is going to cheat when you give him all that option.
I feel like a girl dating a tall guy is she thinks is right because that’s what’s been normalized I am a 5’11 girl my boyfriend 6 every single time someone finds out
I’m dating someone They always ask if they’re taller than me
I don't know what that has to do with guys cheating
Who make up the minority of men? Because the way you wrote this implies a man over 6ft would cheat? Being tall does not equate to being a cheater, that’s just silly generalizing.
No but if most women said they want a guy that has six fingers. Even though that's less than 1% of the population. Now the guys with six fingers would have hundreds of girls to choose from. He is more likely to cheat. So I was trying to show girls that when you choose a man based off of things only a small minority of people have. You're inadvertently giving him more options. And men don't get pregnant at the end of the day so we're definitely more likely to cheat
You mentioned any of that in your original post and none of it makes sense anyway so I guess it doesn’t matter. Just a bunch of unintelligible, ignorant nonsense.
*you didn’t mention
Well most girls don't really care what guys think they would rather just shame and insult people they disagree with. So knowing that's most girls goals in life, I don't argue. I just state my opinion and move on.
The way you talk about women is very scorned, do you get out enough? Not sure why you’d so freely generalize other than lack of experience.
Yup it's funny cause you're not capable of even discussing the topic. Let's just get to the point where you block me so you can feel better about yourself with your lowest self-esteem.
See, lots of weird assumptions. Bye.
Based off generalities which you prove so. Thanks 👍🏿
You’re not talking about anything but 6 fingers, what point have you proven? You come on here often asking women questions, you’re so curious yet so quick to throw insults, disrespect her and push a point, you’re never actually inviting a woman to do anything but argue m. That’s not how you encourage an intellectual conversation, no one will wanna talk to you. You’re horrible, borderline misogynistic views on women will keep you bitter and single for the rest of your life.
Usually when someone doesn't understand and analogies they ask for clarification or they prove deeper to see what the person is trying to say. But as I said before women don't care about what men are trying to say. They just want to hear the same thing they believe in and besides I thought you said bye. Also, what's the definition of misogyny?
You see how you just can’t help but be insulting with your generalizations? “Women don’t care about what men are trying to say”, no, women don’t care about what YOU have to say, and as a result you just put all of us under one umbrella. How much time do you spend online arguing with women? Because 9/10, that’s where you acquire your views rather than actual in-person connections. I bet you love all the black queens in your family and wouldn’t say any of this about them. You’re an entirely different person secretly housing these warped views. And before you say I’m not answering your questions, what’s the point? How willing are you to have an open mind, and actually receive a woman’s opinion about women, rather than force your views and argue? How do you engage in those sorts of conversations when you have an “I’m always right” and a rebuttal for everything said?
Also, having 6 fingers is not an analogy to being a 6 ft and over male. Please familiarize yourself with what that word means and use it properly next time.
All right, let's flip the topics. You don't have any judgments or generalizations that you make about men?
Nope, absolutely not. Why? Because not every man is going to be the same. If I got cheated on in the past, does that mean it’s fair for me to call all men cheaters? Hell no. I treat people as singular individuals, not making them responsible for my bad experiences. You should try it sometime.
Do you believe that the woman who read horoscopes to make generalizations based off of 12 signs and lump all men under those signs? Are they generalizing men or do you only call it? Misogynistic when men generalize women
Reading zodiac signs can help to give a better understanding of people’s actions, characteristics, and personality. I don’t believe that reading horoscopes leads EVERY woman to generalize, but of course there’s some who do. Key word here: some. Not every.
But that's the difference between me and you or men and women in general. I actually see a person that takes horoscopes seriously as dumb and educated. Those horoscopes aren't based off of statistics. They're based off of ways how people generally tend to act and I might be an Aries or a cancer. But a woman will interpret my actions as someone who is a Leo. It's not as accurate I was looking at actual data and making a conclusion based off of statistics. So if I read a study saying that women sit there preferences in men at 6 ft. Or higher and then say you're more likely to get cheated on. I feel like I'm smarter than the girl who base their generalizations off horoscopes but that's just my opinion.
Okay and that’s fine, but apply it to that person specifically not the millions under one gender. You don’t have to agree with why someone does what they do, if zodiac is dumb for you then that’s your choice. But not everyone looks at it the same way. Like for someone consulting a farmers almanac, that’s essentially zodiacs too but there’s a massive cultural difference for its use. You’ve gotta be willing to do the work and research topics before you look at things on a surface level the way you do. “Oh all the gen z girls use zodiacs to generalize men”, thats a tiktok mindset and wildly ignorant because it’s not true across the board. You get your statistics about women off dating app data and quickly apply it to your own personal grievances. Don’t forget articles are writing by average people the only difference is it’s their job, they get paid to do what you do for free.
Okay so if girls choose guys that are 6 ft and above but in European countries where they use the metric system they have no concept of what 6 ft is. What could you conclude about girls then?
What would I conclude about those specific women who choose men over 6ft? I’d say it’s their preference, just how some men prefer blondes, skinny, small feet, perfect teeth, etc etc etc. I’m sure there’s qualities in a woman that you’d prefer as well.
But follow what I'm saying. 6 ft is a concept because of the imperial system where women use the metric system. They don't have a preference for someone that's over 180 cm. So again, what can you conclude about women who use the Imperial system to say they want a guy That's 6 ft but if 6ft wasn't a concept. They choose someone that's just taller than them
I don’t know any woman specifically follow an imperial or metric system. You say this as if there aren’t women in this world with partners that are under 6ft. Like how tall are you? Do you contribute that to why you’re single now? Or just poor choice in women?
Oh girls think I'm 6 ft but I'm not. So that's why I think it's something kind of dumb to hold on to a specific number like that. Like a girl should just say they want a guy taller than them which most guys are saying you want a guy above 6 ft is stupid to me because these numbers don't really mean anything. It would be like me saying I only want to go with a 36 inch waist. But again I don't see how that's misogynistic. Just pointing out how dumb it is.
But I think girls have an issue with guys just critiquing their dumb ideas and that's why a lot of you girls stay delusional.
But that’s just your opinion and thats my whole point. I’m going to judge you as an individual and not project your ideals onto every male under the Sun. While you think dumb to want a man over 6ft, what do you say about the men who won’t date a woman over 5’9? Or a woman who’s foot is bigger than a size 8? Or have a gap in their teeth? For some folks these are utter deal breakers, are they not? These are all preferences that everyone is entitled to. What is something that you would like your woman to have? Whatever it is, I could say it’s dumb but that’s what you like/want, not everyone feels that’s way.
I would say a guy is dumb too if he wanted a girl with a size 8 foot. What's your point?
I think your point is that people shouldn't be ashamed of their preferences, but congratulations! That's all women. Think that way we have the fat acceptance movement and LGBT to stuff going on. So you literally just proven that all women are the same by you. Trying to get rid of shame. But only amongst women for some reason. Men should feel shame
Honestly what is your point? I already said several comments ago you’re inability to have an open mind rather than being so eager to be right will always be your downfall. Especially in a relationship, your girl would get sick to death of arguing with you and you never seeing her side of things. You can’t talk to a woman about women as if you know it all, because you don’t — you can’t — and honestly you just sound very inexperienced.
Since you asked, my point specifically is that I judge individuals based off their views. I don’t act as if everyone of the same sex will have the same preferences, because that’s not realistic. I don't know how on earth you think I’m talking about people being ashamed of their preferences, I never even alluded to that but, again, you are not listening, you are projecting and acting on an “I can’t be wrong” mindset. You’d be asking about women on this site far less if you were actually interested in the substance of the conversations you try having.
I would argue that I have more of an open mind than most women I talk to. I literally made a generalization that turned out to be true. But the fact that you didn't acknowledge that proves that you're the one without the open mind. And the girls I'm with don't argue with me. They look to me for leadership so they listen instead of coming and trying to think they're right about everything. The dynamic that you have with somebody dating versus some random chick online is totally different. If you like a guy and is chasing his validation the last thing you would be doing is arguing with him. But you girls see me as some random incel. So of course you think everything I say is BS
Are you kidding? I’ve said several things, answered your questions in many ways, yet somehow you have the nerve to say I “didn’t acknowledge” that. In fact, all we have been going back and forth about IS you generalizing and how I think you should judge people as individuals.
Again, don’t generalize, just people as individuals.
One more time, don’t generalize, judge people as individuals.
How many time do I need to be clear about that? How many ways can I address it? Are you speed reading through my comments?
Hmm ok judge people as individuals. Would you say that you're good at problem solving and deductive reasoning? Like for example, if you knew something was generally true like fat people generally tend to die at earlier ages because of clogged arteries. Would you use that information to inform fat people that they should lose weight? Or would you say that doesn't apply to them because they're individuals? Yes, they may be fat but maybe they'll be the exception to the rule.
I'm just trying to see how you live life without making generalizations.
Also, I just remembered something. Girls love to make generalizations about men. But men interpret generalizations differently. We are more concerned about whether or not it's true. Where as girls are more concerned about whether or not the generalization makes them feel bad.
So a good example of this is how girls believe that girls are more mature than guys. Instead of me feeling bad about whether or not it's true, I challenge the argument with my own logic. Like how are girls more mature than guys if they constantly choose the bad boy and are surprise by when they get hurt. Or how are they more mature if they'll slash your tires when you cheat on them instead of just walking away.
See that to me is the difference between how men view generalizations and how women view them.
We’re talking about you applying the same logic to every woman under the sun, not someone’s weight. The two categories don’t even correlate but again, that’s you living in your desire to be right and grasping at straws to make it happen. This isn’t a debate or a “who’s right”, it’s not about being right it’s about making sense, and you don’t.
To answer your question no, I would not go up to a fat person and condemn them to death just because someone else has clogged arteries and died. For one: that is just a massive insult and rude assumption, I don’t know how that person lives. Two: fat does not equate to unhealthy. Do you know how many people can be heavy and still healthy? Vegan diets, trainers, regimens? You think every fat person sits around stuffing their face all day? No. So why would I take it upon myself to shame a stranger who’s lifestyle I have no knowledge of? Who am I to give that horrific and unwarranted “opinion”? I don’t live my life with generalizations. Maybe as a young and naive woman but I’m mature and sensible enough to know that not everyone lives the same life.
That’s how YOU view things, not every man. Just like my views don’t apply to every woman.
Nope, the question started with me applying a generalization to all the women that wanted a guy over 6 ft. If you believe that's every woman and that would be even more dumb, but I'm just saying it's a stupid preference to have in general
But you did answer my question so I thank you for that. You don't live life to figure it out or solve issues. You're just here to extract whatever value you can from life.
But it's odd to me that since you're not put on earth to solve the issues of life, why are you shaming people who are here to actually solve problems and find solutions? Because I make generalizations, I'm far more capable of solving a wide variety of problems than someone who refuses to acknowledge generalizations.
So at the end of the day if we're on two different paths, it doesn't make sense for you to shame what you don't understand.
But yeah I would tell the fat person to lose weight because you've never seen an old fat person. And I'm a personal trainer so I do it everyday
Well, I worked at a gym for 6 years one on one with trainers and I personally have seen heavier older women and men. Let’s not act like they don’t exist just because you haven’t seen them. You seem to take a-lot of your own experiences and apply them to the masses, which is very unworldly of you.
I take things at face value, especially when it comes to strangers and their verbiage. It’s not my job to figure out what you are “trying” to say, I’m going to take it as a see it. A generalization is a broad statement, so even if you wanna sit here and say you aren’t applying this to every person, you apply it to the vast majority, without any data to back up your claims.
I can’t take my opinion and present it as fact just because I feel confident in my thought process and my logic, that is just ridiculous. I also never shamed you, I don’t even know you. I’m saying, once again, that I will just people as individuals and not generalize. What problems are you personally solving?
I can solve most problems people throw at me. Right now I'm building an app. To make math fun and addictive. But in order to do that, I had to dive into the psyche of people and what they generally find addictive. That's usually how people make successful things.
You can argue about not wanting to generalize but successful people have been doing it for millions of years. As I said before, your life doesn't revolve around logic or critical thinking so it doesn't make sense for you to generalize. But most people that want to be successful will generally do what works and they won't be far off from success. In whatever they're endeavor is.
Honestly you don’t know what my life revolves around, so I’d politely ask you to stop tossing out assumptions of my character. You’re building a mathematics app, so tell me how that applies to asking women about their romantic preferences, or the rate that they reject men? Are these all questions you’re connecting to your data or are you trying to make some sort of correlation between women and dating? I’m sure those successful people aren’t wasting time arguing with people about wanting a man of 6ft. They’re off getting to their bag.
Well women were confused about why they're getting cheated on. And I said maybe they're preference is select for men that cheat. Just being that deductive problem solver that women don't have in their lives. That's all.
You’re saying women get cheated on for choosing men over 6ft, and that’s absolutely not true for the basic reason that not everyone is the same. My fiancé is 6’6 and a half, never cheated, perfectly content, because that’s who he is as a man.
It’s also ridiculous to even suggest that those women don’t have other men in their lives, or are incapable of solving their own problems. That just makes no sense.
I never said that meant over 6 ft. All I said was if you give us my minority of men all the options of women to choose from those minority are more likely to cheat. But again, you'd have to be a deductive problem solver to come to these kind of conclusions
That is not deductive nor are you solving any problems. You expect people to read the one sentence you provided and create a whole narrative as to what you meant. Just say what you mean in the first place and stop expect people to pick around your brain.
What's understood, doesn't need to be explained. If I tell girls that setting your high preferences to 6 ft or higher when every other girl on the app is doing that that you're more likely to end up with somebody who's going to cheat. It's up to them if they want to listen to me. Do you think I care if they take my advice.
At the end of the day I'm just living life the way I know how. Same with you. You can either choose to listen or do your own thing.
“It's would be stupid to only want to date guys that are 6' which is less than 15% and be surprised that he cheated on you.”
This is what you provide and have the nerve to say what’s understood doesn’t need to be explained? You wrote me several comments that had nothing to do with any of that at all. You explained what you actually were trying to say yet incapable of providing that information in the first place. If that’s you living your life the way you know how well then do better.
If I were like you and constantly getting women disagree with your conclusions and way of thinking, I’d deduct that maybe I’m the problem. Myself and other women have tried being as clear as possible yet you dance in circles. It’s strange.
You're not making any sense. Women say that men are always cheating on them. I said it could be because they're selecting for a small population of men and being over 6 ft has nothing to do with whether or not somebody's actually a good person. So why would I have the problem if women are the ones who said that they don't know why all these men cheat.
But anyways, I don't think you're listening. I think you're hearing what you want to hear
You have a problem because you, as a man, reach out to women on this site just to tell us about what you think we do and don’t do, despite being told it’s incorrect. If you’ve never been a woman, then please stop trying to educate us about ourselves, because we have all told you’re wrong and you are just looking to argue back and forth.
I'm wrong about the reason guys cheat? Ok if you say so
You’re wrong for trying to educate women about our own experiences. If you have a broader take on why men cheat then we’d love to hear it from a male perspective. The problem is that you easily could’ve included everything you’ve said to me in your initial statement; rather than one single sentence that you expect us to deduct and “critically critique”. That’s just nonsensical. To have an intellectual conversation, the topic needs the right elements to which we would expand on with our own thoughts. You don’t just post a few words then condemn someone for not being on the same page as you.
Like being honest, you genuinely do not believe that your statement couldn’t have been expanded upon? You truly felt like those few words relayed exactly what you’ve said to me in this time?
Nope cause I'm 100% confident if I posted this question and only allowed guys to answer they would instantly see the logic, and wouldn't need further clarification. Because what's understood doesn't need to be explained.
Test it out, post this again and allow only male comments.
You can do it if you want, I'm not gonna post something I don't care about
Just as I thought, you clearly cared enough to make that statement but know you can’t back it up lol cornball. Bye.