Where do women get this entitled notion that they are a prize?

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Like they’re owed something because they have a vagina. Let me fill you in on something girls: you don’t deserve shit.

BoopBoopBeep · Accepted Answer

I would say they deserve what they give. If that's drama and entitlement, sure they belong to the streets. If they bring value and peace to a relationship (among a few other things), I'll gladly commit, but single women aren't exactly a limited commodity and I've little incentive to take one over multiple if it entails settling for someone bringing a lot of drama with them.

I travel a lot for work. There are women I see in the cities I frequent. They know about each other so there's not anything shady going on, they also know that I have certain responsibilities which will require more travel in the medium term future. Occasionally one of them will decide that they want something else with someone else and I wish them happiness on their travels through life. And that frees up future slots for that city which someone else typically fills by the end of the month.

Guys are the prize once the wall has been hit, but amongst probably 95% of the user ages I see on here, I think it would be disengenuous to say men are the prize or women are the prize. The individual may be, sure, but I can find truly worthless men and women out there.

inhua · Accepted Answer

traditional masculine roles and who is a "real man" dictates that men do everything first to serve a woman even if nothing is reciprocated otherwise that's entitlement even though expecting something for free is the very definition of entitlement

plus there's gynocentric laws and shame tactics working in favor of women. it's also funny when men are expected to be traditional first and then women will become traditional afterwards which doesn't work because you can always turn a loser into a great husband but you can't turn a hoe into a housewife

kylee2437 · Accepted Answer

I saw a man the other day that said he doesn’t lead until he marries someone and while I don’t believe in gender roles, I do believe what he said was entitled and stupid

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Because of simps. Men are the problem here.

Anonymous · Answer

From nature. That's just the way it is man. But men typically get the say when it comes to marriage. I mean yeah a woman can say no... but a guy can string some women along for years. Making her believe he'll marry her wasting her precious child bearing years. Which is like currency to a woman. Because while a good woman never loses value. Without a doubt a woman does lose sexual market value quickly.

This is why the worst women get mad at this notion. Because they women who are not good women have NOTHING to fall back on when that's gone.

jahaims · Answer

It's easy to over estimate ones value when it comes from being a female who has a lot of guys that want to sleep with her. This isn't a valid metric because getting laid as a female is vastly different than getting laid as a male. It would be the same as if a female beat a male in a race but the man had to run uphill for 5 miles while she ran downhill for a mile and thinking she is a superior runner.

purplepoppy · Answer

We are the prize, that's how life works, deal with it.

HateyouxD · Answer

So do men.. unless I find one seriously worth my time

Sirenboobzilla · Answer

Literally because of men treating us like we're a prize. I agree that we're not owed anything just because we're women

Billlewis · Answer

Probably because they are?

virtualwasp · Answer

prize? we are human, not a prize.

Anonymous · Answer

We all deserve better than you.

Anonymous · Answer

We know when we are a prize or not.

MissBoogus · Answer

Rude 😤

Anonymous · Answer

Do you feel better now?

boobliker · Answer

but they to all of us!

Malwi93 · Answer

No I don’t feel like I deserve anything

Anonymous · Answer

because i am worthy 😇

slatyb · Answer

Mostly from church.

SolitarySolace · Answer

Society.

Anonymous · Answer

We are both prizes in our own way

Anonymous · Answer

Who hurt you?

Where do women get this entitled notion that they are a prize?

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