Why does nature and society treat women as the prize?

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Both nature and society treats man poorly and unfair compared to woman in my opinion. Let's see the typical stereotype dating that still rules society by large. Since man are made, while woman are born as they say: Man need to approach the woman, ask her out, pay for the date, innitiate the kiss, innitiate the sex, propose the woman, and of course pay for the ring. Woman considered to be more beautiful, sexy, curvy, etc. Man have to put a lot more effort into everything for a smaller return. Not to mention that man have to worry about penis size, and man go bald faaar more often than woman.

TooHot2Care · Accepted Answer

. . . . . . . I met the "man" my best friends mother was dating after her divorce.

One of the FIRST things this guy did was lie to me about the significance of the Corn Chowder he made for Thanksgiving dinner. The CFO of Louis Vuitton liked it apparently, and wanted more of it. . . . Of course, the two problems with that story is why would the CFO of a French Fashion mega company be rubbing shoulders with a middle school teacher? Also, the company is LVMH , not Louis Vuitton. But, I didn't call him out on that. He also bullied my best friends little brother.

I stood up for him by politely yet firmly telling him that Kenny would only see him as an enemy if he did that.

With a smile that was so fake it might as well have been a pair of clothes, he told me "Thank you , but I am in charge of over 200 kids regularly."

I then asked him why he didn't give the other older brother , Pierre the same treatment? His smile VANISHED, made an angry face and said "It's time for you to leave."

I hugged everyone goodbye and as I was leaving he started screaming in a tantrum voice that I came into his house and told him what to do.

I calmly and yet firmly remarked : "Nope, I've got things to do."

This man was a person who isn't challenged, who is weak, who once he grows into a position of authority is petty, belligerent, a liar, bullies children, and those are the NICE things about him. . . .

Men aren't celebrated because with too much celebration, you get that thing.

Now, why are women celebrated?

There is a Netflix series that visually and socially and emotionally tells the story of the downfall of humanity.

In one of the last scenes you see a scrolling shot of the last remaining humans. All of them are men hobbled up in a heated environment without even a bed to sleep.

No children. No women. Just men.

When I saw that, I knew it was over.

The tender touch of a woman, the soft kiss of her voice. The gentle breeze of her presence. All gone. Forever.

The potential. The hope. The love. The tenderness. The idealism of children. All gone. Forever.

Even if the heroes won that final battle in that show, which they didn't. . . ? There wouldn't be any winners, because once women and children are gone, humanity is doomed.

You're a man, you have to earn your spot. I know it seems bitter, but look at that example above again. . . Look at what men can become if they are not "made". . . . Look at how ugly and disgusting we can become and wear a smile while doing so. . . .

And you really wonder why society favors women. . . ?

DenizLikesTennis · Accepted Answer

The idea that women are treated as a prize in nature and society is a complex and multifaceted issue that has been shaped by a variety of cultural, social, and historical factors.

From an evolutionary perspective, the biological imperative to reproduce has driven many species including humans, to develop strategies for attracting mates. In some cases, this has led to the development of physical and behavioral traits that are considered attractive to potential mates. In human societies, these traits may include physical beauty, intelligence, social status, and wealth. Women, in particular, have historically been valued for their ability to bear children, which has contributed to the perception of women as a valuable and desirable commodity.

However it's important to note that the idea of women as a prize is also deeply rooted in cultural and societal norms that have developed over time. These norms often reflect broader power dynamics within society where men have historically held more power and influence than women. This has led to the objectification of women and the idea that they are objects to be won or conquered by men

. Now many people are working to challenge these norms and create a more equal and just society where women are valued for their inherent worth and contributions, rather than as objects to be pursued or possessed by men.

Tiffany_Taylor_Made · Accepted Answer

The problem with your post is that it assumes that all men and women have the same experiences, desires, and expectations, which is an oversimplification of complex human interactions. Not every man has a problem with approaching women, asking them out, paying for dates, initiating kisses and sex, proposing, and paying for wedding rings. In addition, even if they did, not every man has to do those things. Sometimes, women approach men and ask them out, pay for dates, and do the initiating. All in all, it depends on the individual woman that the man chooses, as not all women have the same experiences, desires, and expectations. As for your take on women, not every woman is considered beautiful or sexy, and not every woman has a curvy body shape.

Women who are considered unattractive are not always treated well in society as well. Unlike men, most of the characteristics that are considered desirable in women are birth traits, which can't be altered without undergoing drastic measures. For example, many men (not all) typically desire women with pretty faces, big breasts, and a big butt, which are typically birth characteristics because of genetics. Women without pretty faces, big breasts, and big butts often feel pressured to undergo cosmetic surgery to receive male attention, which can cost a large amount of money that most women can't afford. On the other hand, the oft-considered desirable characteristics in men are often achieved through work rather than genetics. For example, many women (not all) typically desire men with a toned body build, confidence, a well-paying job, and the ability to provide financial and physical security.

Every able-bodied and mentally sound man is capable of working on staying in shape, being more confident, getting a better job, and providing security for himself and his family. Putting in effort is not something that is exclusive to men. Adults in general have to put effort into life, and getting something in return is not always guaranteed. In addition, not every man has a little dick that he feels insecure about, nor does every man go bald at a fast rate. Even if this were true, this is not an issue about nature or society treating men unfairly. Instead, it is more of an issue of men refusing to address and mend their insecurities and putting in effort to achieve their goals.

8UniquelyBoring8 · Accepted Answer

I understand your perspective on the societal expectations and stereotypes placed upon men and women. While there may be some truth to these views, it's important to recognize that not all men or all women fit within these narrowly defined roles. It's also important to remember that societal norms and expectations are constantly evolving and changing.

Instead of dwelling on the negative aspects of these stereotypes, it may be helpful to focus on the ways we can shift towards a more equitable and fair society. This could include challenging these stereotypes when we see them perpetuated, advocating for equal rights and opportunities for people of all genders, and supporting organizations that work towards gender equality.

Avicenna · Answer

Well, from an evolutionary standpoint this makes sense- women bear children, and the species' survival is maximized when they bear lots of children. One man can impregnate multiple women, and from an evolutionary standpoint, you want the "fittest" males getting women pregnant.

Of course, especially in our modern world, it doesn't exactly work like that, but it's still a useful construct for understanding what you have observed.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

It does not mean things are unequal. The man treats his wife like the prize and the wife treats her children like the prize.

hahahmm · Answer

For eons men did things with the motivation that they would get a prize. There used to be a saying that a good woman was worth her weight in gold. She was NOT a liability. She was simply part of a man building wealth. Building his life. He was happy to enrich her life and saw it as his role. There used to be a VERY high percentage of women who were good wife material, good mom material, loyal, respectful, helpful, industrious (running some sort of side business that the man could be proud of whether it made money or not). These women did not create unnecessary drama, they were not selfish. They did not view men as competition.

In that context, women were a prize. The right woman anyhow. The man was a prize too! They both won.

Today so many women are the exact opposite of what a good woman is. They are liabilities. Women (and many men today) are not acting in the way God or nature intended. They are doing the opposite.

zeitgeist057 · Answer

Hmmm well I guess us poor blokes will just have to settle for making more money, getting more positions of power, being able to travel wherever we like on the planet alone and wear whatever we like when we get there, and not having to worry about others dreaming about trying to penetrate our orifices everywhere we go and the very real threat of it happening against our will if we aren't on guard against it.

https://www.statista.com/statistics/232563/forcible-rape-rate-in-the-us-by-state/

All things considered, I'm happy to treat her to a meal here and there. After all, I can afford it.

Why does nature and society treat women as the prize?

FreyaRed · Answer

Demands of society differ in different times and circumstances. Current western societies are completely vain and hedonistic pursuit is the highest good in those societies. No wonder young attractive women are the prize because they fit as best to ideal of an hedonistic society.
Just a thought experiment. Imagine our we find out aliens exist and new epoch of desire for scientific achievements start to dominate western societies. Young women have to leave the throne and guys currently called the nerds take their place because of their autism that is often beneficial for new scientific achievements.

Meropatrick · Answer

Its how our race works. The gender that bear the children should be the one choosing the mate. As they put the most effort in raising and giving birth to the off spring. A woman has a womb which will create the child. Its biology. Also the norms dont encouge women to make the first move evenif she want to

Meanwhile life isn't fair towards women either. Not all women see themselves as beautiful and not all of them are. Women suffer with periods pain and not so great friendships. They have limited times to bear children

Anonymous · Answer

Without the simps doing all of this, everything would have changed over night. Simps pay for the dates, simps pay for the Onlyfans, simps put up with the bad behavior, simps have no standards...

Women will say 'Who ever does the asking, does the paying' knowing full well that 99% of men do the asking. The fact that men / simps put up with this crap is on them. I do not, and will not. Everything in life is earned regardless of gender.. if simps want to give their time and attention for free then they can continue doing so but things will get worse.

Anonymous · Answer

I think women are treated as the prize in their teens and twenties after that women are treated very indifferently by men and soceity in general.

My husband is the prize in my view. But he wouldn't have been the prize if he wasn't going to be able to support us financially and wasn't hard working and intelligent. Sure it helped that he is very handsome, athletic, muscular and tall but for me to sacrifice my youth for him, committ to him completely and bear his children I needed to feel secure. There were no shortage if other women after him. I mean I've met some of his exs and they are pretty intimidating.

_Maya_ · Answer

You're the guys that are doing it. We didn't ask for it. At least I don't. I don't expect to be paid for on a date. I always go in with the expectation that we split for example. Lolz @ has to worry about penis size. No you don't. You just do unnecessarily. Just take a look at the questions here about it and the pink responses. All the things you list are a product of men. They are the ones doing it. Don't want to? Then don't. Problem solved.

inhua · Answer

it's due to the oppressive "patriarchy" that grants women the privilege of safety, protection and ability to abuse power when she needs it while forcing men to either look like Brad Pitt or be a wage slave in hopes of him passing his genes onto the next generation

nastyb · Answer

Without women, humans will cease to exist. The world can still exist with 1 man and 100,000 women. But the human population will not be able to be sustained with 1 woman and 100,000 men. A woman has limited childbearing years and cannot birth over a certain number of children. This is why womens lives are more important than mens lives

Unit1 · Answer

That's all only if you date gold diggers. It's probably also why rich men don't bother being monogamous since these girls are the same. And men keep being single instead of fooling themselves being in a relationship with gold diggers.

Now how many women are gold diggers? Hmmm, hmmm. That's the million dollar question.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Woman was (Eve) a blessing and a gift to man (Adam) from God.

Women are the prize assuming she's a good and Goldly woman only, not just because she's a woman.

As to why she's the prize, and not men is because women where originally created by God to be a man's helper when Adam was all alone, and they bring forth children through birth and offer us men the intimacy of sexual bonding and pleasure.

LisaLisa89 · Answer

This is a very long-winded way of telling us that you can't find a girl to out with you.

PizzaDaddyo · Answer

Imagine if we lived in a world where men are the prizes and get asked out and get proposed to but still have all the masculinity and brawn

Billlewis · Answer

Women are treated as the prize because they are the prize, in my humble opinion.

RingOfFire · Answer

Women are the prize because only they can bear the children that ensure the survival of the human race. For that, men have to pay the price in other ways.

Dargil · Answer

Because  they are  and are also the key to the survival of our species.

Raaj4you · Answer

People told me to love and respect women. They said, " a man is a man no matter what". Unfortunately, we don't get love and respect in return.

anon1903 · Answer

That only applies to attractive women who gold dig lol

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