Do women care about a guys bodycount?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend of 3 years asked me how many people I slept with which is in the triple digits and she got disgusted, now she's avoiding me saying she needs time to think. I thought women don't care about a guys bodycount, any advice?

[_Maya_]

Yeah some do. It tells me if someone is the type that sleeps around and can't keep a relationship. It's either he can't keep with one girl or he is a player if it is a high body count. It isn't a hard and fast rule but it is telling. What's more important than that to me is sexual health. I won't touch a guy or girl until both of us are tested. I take no chances with that. Don't want to get tested? We don't do anything then.

[Spongebobssocks]

Yes.. that she cares shows she has value. She needs to know you want a serious comitment and not just a fun relationship or flings like your past has been.

[Spongebobssocks]

Thank you for MHO:)

[MementoMori777]

unfortunately yea, but im holding on to the hope that all i need is one to not care and it will be who i marry

[inhua]

virgin shaming wouldn't be a thing if women didn't care about a guy's body count

[LazerBean]

The smart ones do, and figure that out before they even commit to a guy. But even the not so bright ones aren't much into dating someone that bad.

[sheikalana]

Honestly I'd rather not know because I care.

[Iron_Man]

I think so