Girls, Be honest if you like a guy but he’s talking to other girls would that hurt your feelings or would you let him do whatever?

[Anonymous]

[grunge_bunni]

if this was in a dating/deep talking stage situation, for me, if he takes the time to talk to other girls he's not worth it because if he actually liked me he would focus on me not others (obviously if its a really close friend i'm not going to make him stop talking to them) or if he was talking to girls all the time AND flirtatiously, it would hurt me. but as a taste of his own medicine for doing it an un-loyal way, if he has told me not to talk to other guys before, i would start talking to guys again for 2 reasons, 1, get what you give, 2, see how he feels, if he brings it up to me, ill compare it to his side and talk it out, then we can come to an agreement, or he can leave if he isn't happy with it.

[jennifer_bloom]

I would not waste my time on a guy that is duplicating his dating time. I’m the only one, or I’m not in it at all. It’s okay to be friends with multiple people, but not okay to be in a relationship with multiple people.

[Asker]

What about if the two of you are in that just talking phase? If you were showing interest by chatting with him more but he decides to date another girl, would that make you mad?

[jennifer_bloom]

He has a right to choose his own happiness. I might be disappointed but I would not hate him. I might even be happy for him.

[kylee2437]

Back then I’d be bothered, but currently it would depend for me. If it’s to a point where he can’t make time for me because he’s in that much of a rotation, that’s a red flag.

[May1787]

If we’re not exclusive, he has every right. Do you also have the right to experience whatever feelings you might have? Sure.