Why are girls "allowed" to overthink things, but men aren't?

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You see it all the time

People telling men not to overthink it. Heck, the girl I like, even told me once "don't over think it"

Yet you see girls on here, asking things like "why did he laugh at my joke"
Why are girls "allowed" to overthink things, but men aren't?
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