Girls, Why are most Girls Attracted to Guys who are more likely to cheat?

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[Beautyblossom2]

I personally am not attracted to red flags, but many girls like it. I've experienced each red flag and how exhausting & draining it can be, so no.
Yes, I did fall for a guy like that but when I fell, he wasn't that red flag. Slightly. But I always hated those tendencies of him & focussed more on an "idea" of him which never existed (my whole story on my page). I re-met him n the moment I realised he's a future cheater, I dropped him. It was a blessing to me I found him first n did it.
I did interact with one of his kinda girls, who admitted being into redflags. She said it's cuz she's "not into 'bozos' n he has 'rizz" I think it's cuz guys who're to become a cheater, are usually the ones who've realised they have what it takes to get many n usually end up challenging themselves to see how many they can get w. it. They do have that charm that girls need n I think only insecure n stupid girls chase them cuz they wanna be the 'winner' (overlooking the biggest red flags). You'll only be getting those kinda girls (a very very small but visible fraction) P. s. There's a huge fraction, many MANY girls who avoid such redflags guys (my guy had a lot of charm yet still I left him to his girl while chanting all his charms to her, he was hurt but he deserved it for what he did) if only u were considering who all are NOT into it..

[BlackBeauty90]

Not most girls

Statistically women who get involved with cheaters or abusers come from broken families where the father figure he cheated on and/or abused the mother. It's the same reason why statisically drug abusers, criminals, alcoholics come from families where the parents were drug abusers, criminals and alcoholics.

Kids grow up thinking this is acceptable.

Has nothing to do with wanting to "fix" the person. Most women are not fixers - that's a role of men - they are nurturers... entirely different. And weaker women - easily manipulated, low self respect or self esteem - because of this often get roped in with the WRONG character.

If women were born fixers they'd leave abusers and cheaters for their own health. And the safety of their kids. But most don't and so how's dooming the next generation into thinking cheating and abuse is acceptable fixing anything 🤔

[chevy1]

well years ago when i was 21 i really liked the rough bad guys 3 of them cheated one didn't one just told me he loved me but liked another girl and he was sorry so the one i left a year and a half ago my ex i met him 2018 i was 29 about to turn 30 he was 24 about to turn 25 a month later iam 5 years older than him then he started cheating on me a year later with 2 girl one who became his girlfriend and the other was a 1 night stand then i found out he was cheating just by gut feeling and watching him and listning to him when he was in the toilet i herd him talking to other girls saying baby awl be up next week i kept trying to get it out of him but he just kept saying I was paraniod and blaming me for everything and so yeah he cheated for 2 years another reason i found out was because i liked her up on Facebook and told her now he is still with he and a not her girlfriend and on a dating site for other girls to

[chevy1]

so i changed my liking to rough guys in the bed but also nice when out the bed to make me feel truly loved its something av never had from a man because i have always went for the wrong type of guys i like bad boys but only bad in bed but nice al other times

[SeLiNder07]

Going based on studies and just basic knowledge of the female specifies - we like to fix things, because it’s a challenge. That’s why. If a guy is broken or is more likely to hurt us, we will tend to think, “Oh, maybe I can change him. Maybe this will be like the movies and he will change his way only for me!” A bad boy who is good only for her….. yeah, it’s a toxic female thing, fs, but yeah. That pretty much sums it up.

[BlackBeauty90]

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If Girls want to fix things as you say then how come they don't want to fix Shy Guys then?

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Going based on studies and just basic knowledge of the female specifies - we like to fix things, because it’s a challenge. That’s why. If a guy is broken or is more likely to hurt us, we will tend to think, “Oh, maybe I can change him. Maybe this will be like the movies and he will change his way only for me!” A bad boy who is good only for her….. yeah, it’s a toxic female thing, fs, but yeah. That pretty much sums it up.

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Not most girls

Statistically women who get involved with cheaters or abusers come from broken families where the father figure he cheated on and/or abused the mother. It's the same reason why statisically drug abusers, criminals, alcoholics come from families where the parents were drug abusers, criminals and alcoholics.

Kids grow up thinking this is acceptable.

Has nothing to do with wanting to "fix" the person. Most women are not fixers - that's a role of men - they are nurturers... entirely different. And weaker women - easily manipulated, low self respect or self esteem - because of this often get roped in with the WRONG character.

If women were born fixers they'd leave abusers and cheaters for their own health. And the safety of their kids. But most don't and so how's dooming the next generation into thinking cheating and abuse is acceptable fixing anything

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

There’s a scientific reasoning.

Girls who are attracted to men who are potentially more likely to cheat, are the ones who want sons.

Girls who want daughters will be attracted to you.

[Asker]

What?, So Girls only go after Shyer Guys when they want Daughters.

How is that a Scientific reason?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Girls who go for ***boys subconsciously want to mother boys. That’s all I can say.

[amber8894]

I think we are attracted to guys that have options. I really don’t like guys that don’t have options, they seem to like you out of pity… same for girls… I think that it is a value to us to say that the guy we are with attracts so many girls

[DermalPunch]

Because they broadcast their sexual energy and it is attractive.

Women conflate attraction and compatibility.

[Simslover92]

I wouldn't say most girls are attracted to guys who are more likely to cheat. I wouldn't even say many are.

[EmmaMary]

Congratulations on winning a Troll of the day award.

[sheenagwapa]

i don't... romantic relationship is super important to me and so will not settle whatever happens

[rienna888]

Because they are charming and handsome or else nobody would be attracted to them

[Anonymous]

What, you want us to be lesbians? Guys cheat in general.