Am somehow interested in her but at the same time don't want to end up in friend zone.
Also she takes too long to reply.
She takes long to reply? You're afraid of friend zone? It tells me one thing is the solution: speed up. You be more upfront and if she's not right for you then move on.
It sounds like this girl is interested in you, but she's also shy or unsure how to proceed. She may be afraid of being rejected, or she may not be sure if you're interested in her in the same way.
One way to move things forward is to take the initiative and set up a meeting yourself. You could say something like, "I'm free this weekend, would you like to go for a bike ride?" If she says yes, then you can plan the details together.
If she says no, don't take it personally. She may just be busy or not ready to meet up yet. However, you can still keep the conversation going by texting her or calling her occasionally. This will show her that you're interested in her and that you're willing to put in the effort to get to know her better.
It's also important to be patient. She may not be ready to start dating yet, and that's okay. Just keep taking things slow and let her come to you when she's ready.
Finally, don't be afraid to ask her directly if she's interested in you. This will give you the clear answer you need and help you move forward with your relationship.
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Don't take it personally but...
It sounds like this girl is interested in you, but she's also shy or unsure how to proceed. She may be afraid of being rejected, or she may not be sure if you're interested in her in the same way.
One way to move things forward is to take the initiative and set up a meeting yourself. You could say something like, "I'm free this weekend, would you like to go for a bike ride?" If she says yes, then you can plan the details together.
If she says no, don't take it personally. She may just be busy or not ready to meet up yet. However, you can still keep the conversation going by texting her or calling her occasionally. This will show her that you're interested in her and that you're willing to put in the effort to get to know her better.
It's also important to be patient. She may not be ready to start dating yet, and that's okay. Just keep taking things slow and let her come to you when she's ready.
Finally, don't be afraid to ask her directly if she's interested in you. This will give you the clear answer you need and help you move forward with your relationship.
God bless.
So have you told her when you're ready to meet up? Have you initiated anything?
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