Great conversation with her, BUT she never asks me questions?

Its been a week since our blind date and we have since seen each other a total of 4 times and its going great. She was super shy and nervous at first, but has opened up more and more each time we see each other. I have no issue talking with her, asking her questions about herself, her past, etc, normal dating questions, we talk and I throw in my experience with stuff when I can, but she hasn't directly asked me anything about me or my past which has me wondering?

I know she is into me, we have kissed a couple times and today while on a ferry ride we embraced each other several times and we have both expressed how much we like each others company.

Before our first date she did express concern to our matchmaker friend about what to talk about, she was really nervous before our first date and didn't know what to talk about. I do know its been a couple years since a past relationship.

Could it still be nerves?

This is the only thing that concerns me about her.

I've come to the conclusion that this is just the way she is, she doesn't want to pose questions either because it feels unnatural for her, or she doesn't know what to ask. I'm not worried anymore.


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  • It could be nerves. I get nervous really bad sometimes when just starting off again in the big ole dating world. I'm a really bad conversationalist. 1 on 1 conversations always make me feel SO awkward, and I get so worried about making things seem less awkward that I get nervous to ask questions.. sometimes they just escape my mind, and sometimes it's easier to get rid of that awkward feeling by just answering questions about myself because it's not something I have to think about when trying to think of things to say. Sometimes I feel like when I ask a question, and they answer it that I have to try and come back with something else to say on the subject after they answer. I'm really just super paranoid with 1 on 1 situations, and maybe she's the same way. It gets better with time, and as I get more comfortable with the person.


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  • She's not that interested.

    If she was nervous she'd want you to talk more. So hopefully she wouldn't have to speak much.

  • since she's obviously interested, she just doesn't know what or when to ask.

    ...or, if you already (unknowingly) answered all her immediate questions.


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