I’ve been with my boyfriend for a year. We also have a son on the way. Recently we have moved in together around 4 months ago. I do a lot for him, cook, clean, his washing, buy his ps5 games, clothes, phone, etc I do a lot. Im always so interested in his day and how it goes and making conversation and I’ve noticed he dosent seem to ever care about my day or if im okay? He dosent ask questions about me like I do him? Even being pregnant he just won’t ask much about how I m feeling or being attentive.
or for example if I stay at my moms he barley calls or texts, it’s always me? It’s like he just dosent care? I make conversation and he always goes on his phone or he just never asks about me it’s just always him? I know he loves me but I don’t know if he loves ME or loves ME because of everything I provide for him. Im an attractive person and so is he and I know he’s still attracted to me but he’s just really not attentive?
He puts in no effort for dates, he dosent wanna spend time with me unless it’s after work late at night and the morning but throughout the day he’s just working? Im a great conversationalist and I get along with everyone and I do get along with him but it’s like he’s not interested in me at all? He is very very physical and good with words but he puts in no effort?
Can I change this? He used to be more attentive at the start but since we live together he is not. He’s like it with his family too and just ignores them when they speak to him which I’ve noticed, they’ll keep speaking to him and he’s just on his phone. Will he forever be this way?
