Not receiving her message, not having her answer, not knowing anything about her, not being reciprocated?

[Anonymous]

That they let you know that they don't agree to go out with you, their dry, cold and cutting attitude that they only look for you to ask you for things, favors and inconvenience.

All those things are also a message and so clear that even a blind man can see it.

[Oliverlogan263]

You're absolutely right - there are many clear "messages" someone can communicate without words when they're not interested in you or pursuing a relationship:

• Not answering or returning your messages. This demonstrates a lack of interest or investment in communicating with you.

• Giving one-word or very short replies. This shows they're not engaged or putting effort into the conversation.

• Making excuses to avoid seeing you in person. This indicates they don't want to spend real time together.

• Only contacting you when they want or need something. This shows you're seen more as a resource than a potential partner.

• A cold, distant or disinterested attitude. Their body language, facial expressions and general demeanor convey a lack of warmth or enthusiasm for you.

• Avoiding eye contact or staring off into space when you talk. This reveals they're not fully present or engaged in what you're saying.

• Not asking you questions or acting interested in getting to know you better. If someone was interested, they would want to learn more.

As you said, these kinds of "messages" are clear even without words. Lack of effort, lack of interest and avoiding real connection all signal that a relationship is unlikely to blossom.

So you're right - rather than hoping, wondering or overanalyzing, pay attention to how this person is actually treating you and what they're demonstrating through their actions (or lack thereof). That will give you clarity on whether or not to continue pursuing them.

Hope this helps confirm and expand on your perspective! Let me know if you have any other questions.

[Anonymous]

To me that just says they aren’t interested in you outside of what you have to offer, whether it’s monetary, favors, rides, and anything else you give. I don’t interacts with users like that.