If she's single and sleeps with other guys?

[Anonymous]

Why do I get jealous

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We were attracted to each other

[Anonymous]

Because you want to the one for her. ﾠ

[serious]

That means you may like her more than just friends

[Anonymous]

Funny question. ﾠ

[BasedBaeBecca]

If she is single, she isn't bound by any commitment and is therefore free to sleep with other men, which is her choice.

It sounds like you have feelings for her, and her sleeping with other men makes you feel rejected or abandoned. This is normal - it's how love and attachment work.

Remember that how you feel is valid, but it doesn't mean that she has done something wrong.

[Asker]

Why do I want to lose the feelings I have because I know she's with other guys? . even tho I really like her

[BasedBaeBecca]

It can be painful to see someone we care about with someone else. It can feel like she's choosing them over us - like we are not good enough, or not as good as the other person.

You may want to stop having feelings for her because you want to feel safe from this pain.

[Asker]

Yes I think it's like that it makes me mad

[Lowiu]

Beacuse I guess you either want to be her boyfriend or the one sleeping with her

[Asker]

What do I do

[Lowiu]

Like does she know about your feelings?

[Asker]

She knows I like her but didn't go for it

[Lowiu]

You didn't go for it or she didn't

[Asker]

I didn't cause I knew other guys involved

[Lowiu]

Ok sounds complicated

[Asker]

She's still single but sleeps around

[Lowiu]

So why dont you shoot your shot?

[Asker]

The sleeping around would not be good girl to date but only sleep with?

[Lowiu]

If thats a problem for you its better if you two dont date

[jahaims]

You have feelings for her

[Asker]

What to do

[Anonymous]

Talk to her about it directly.