How to keep calm cool and collected around attractive girls?

[Anonymous]

How can I stop sweating pretty girls and putting them on pedestals when I suck around girls and never had a relationship or anything of that sort. Also they never really talked to me unless I have gone out of my way. A lot of the things that I do tend to be corny and crazy, while I am quiet not much of the leader type and more laid back. I am not really the take charge type of person unless really pushed into the position. Even then I feel very nervous and not sure of what I am doing. Just even planning a date I never know what to do or where to go even though I have had a few dates.

[TheMisogynist]

All right, here's the thing, putting girls on a pedestal is like drinking natty ice out of a pilsner glass. It is totally undeserving of such a high level of respect. What you need to remember, and this is the absolute key here, is that women are, for the most part, idiots. Even the smart ones are irrational which means their smarts can only be useful if directed by the logical thought of a man. Anyway the point I am getting at is that you shouldn't give a damn what women think of you, because their opinions are instantly invalidated by their obvious mental deficiencies. Instead of wondering if they like you, or hoping they like you. Just approach everything with the attitude that she needs a man in her life to keep her from doing stupid sh*t like getting drunk to the point of blacking out with a bunch of guys she just met, or running red lights cause she is busy putting on lipstick, or drinking bleach cause the bottle looks kinda like a milk jug. Once you actually start talking to them, it is easy to see how helpless they are, which makes it easier to maintain this attitude. So next time you are gonna talk to a girl, just tell yourself "she's a girl, so she is a moron, and I don't care what she thinks" You can thank me later.

[ryanrhino]

When I see an attractive woman, I ask myself 'Is she attractive on the inside?' Then, 'Well, only one way to find out - talk to the source.'

See, attractive women are people, too, just like celebrities. Keep in mind, do you think celebrities or beautiful people want to be complemented about things that many other people talk to them about? Just start a light conversation.

Treat her like you would a good friend. It feels odd at first, but if you act like you know the person and can be comfortable with them, it goes a long way. So, if you can feel like you are already her friend, it's easier to actually be her friend!

[tazitori]

well it sounds like you probably have a little confidence issue so maybe if you start thinking more highly (but not cocky) about yourself you won't have such an issue. and maybe maybe go to a club or somewhere with a lot of pple and just talk to peole to get more social skills

[udolipixie]

You can stop putting them on a pedestal by changing your values.

Stop valuing looks so much in a partner.

[AltTech]

When you walk into a room, kick the door down like you own the place. Then slowly remove your shades as you look around. Take one slow step forward, all eyes are on you. Zero in on the gazelle you want and hunt.

That should get you started in the right direction.