Ladies, the last guy you Friend-zoned, why?

[Jersey2]

What made you Friend-zone the last guy you did it to? What was it that put him in the Friend-zone.

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Answers please.

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Hmmmm

[provokeesmokee]

I don't friendzone guys, I reject them.

I did have one boy when we were in high school who thought he was dating me and friendzoned himself.

I never expressed interest in him. He just stalked me on his own.

[blueonblack22]

Actually the friendzone IS rejection and the worst form of it. But I get what you are saying. You know the difference.

[provokeesmokee]

If a guy mistakes my very clear rejection to choose to be a hanger on and delude himself into thinking if he's a platonic friend for long enough I'll one day magically see him as a prospect, that is solely and completely his mistake.

[blueonblack22]

Just as long as you direct and respectful (the moment you came to that decision) then I don’t fault you for anything. I also agree that if a man sticks around after you were straight up with him then at that point it’s his fault.

But in my experiences most women prefer to play dumb. They come up with all sorts of bullshit excuses for it but more often then not it’s because they don’t want the attention and benefits going away. I’ve had past women try to pull this crap on me by “throwing bones” when they sense I am drifting away. It’s about keeping me in their selfish bs “orbit” network. It’s just very disrespectful when a woman tries to pull this crap. It shouldn’t always on the guy to “figure it out”. She has a responsibility to speak up.

Thank you for doing the right thing even when it’s difficult at times. The guy might not thank you but he will be thankful for your honesty. Men yearn to be respected more then women realize.

[monorprise]

@provokeesmokee why were you soo narrow in your "prospects" were you dating other men or just looking for mister perfect?

[provokeesmokee]

Lmao, this is why I choose not to date men anymore. I'm thankful every day I'm bisexual and cishet men aren't my prefered option.

[Billlewis]

Now, here's a great question...

[Billlewis]

Thanks very much for the point:)