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like what would be the reasons for NOT talking to the guy if there was obviously some sort of issue going on
it seems odd to go hings this was not speak to the guy who your claiming to have issues with
Why would a girl not talk to a guy if she was having issues with him?
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I had issues with a guy but I don't know if he had issues with me. At the same time I was very afraid of him too. And I felt like the whole thing was a joke. Want to speak on the situation now?
i had originally wanted to date her but also knew her through her work , we originally got along well but now things are just weird. i no longer know what she wants or why she refuses to speak to me if she feels there is a problem between us.
feel its disrespectful to me to not speak to me privately if she feels genuinely there is a problem between us that could potentially be resolved if we were to talk about it
Maybe she's scared.
I went into a guy's dms to talk it out but he totally blew it off and pretended not to even know me. That hurt
Why do you suspect something is wrong between you two?
i would definitely reply if she sent me a direct message on social media or email. but she's never reache out to me and didn't reply to the message sent her last year. and some sites she has private accounts so i cannot even contact her through them
because she acts weird when i'm around and the girls at her work all think i have an issue with her
Dang much be bad blood. But what makes you think you guys have issues.
Maybe it's how you are looking at her. Tbh she may feel you are a creep if you guys haven't spoken
one time earlier this year ( st patricks day ) i ran into her at a bar in another city and she pretended to not even know me and just walked by then disappeared and never saw her again that night and as you said it hurt that she acted that way
I mean what was she supposed to do? Maybe you had a mask on and she didn't really recognize you or she could be shy... or bad blood. Depends what went down
we still talk at her work but haven't really talked about private or personal things much this summer , so there is still a place where she could speak to me and open up if she wanted to
She's at her job. Leave her be. Why don't you approach her if you have to and introduce yourself but mostly leave her be at her job and or buy her a drink lol I don't know how that goes at bars but you gotta talk to her sometime!!! Come on!!! What is wrong with yoi
she knew it was me , had this you found me look on her face and was with a girlfriend at the time , odd she left but her other girlfriend's stayed at the bar till close as i recall seeing them when i was outside waiting for a taxi but she was long gone
It's so weird how I can relate to this story kind of. I'm wondering if I actually know you. Does cub ring a bell or a white cat lol anyway I don't know what to tell you. You obviously have feelings for this girl. Fight for her dammit
her job is pretty social , i don't see what problem there'd be for her to talk to me there , we have talked there many times before and she was ok with it
i haven't bought her a drink in over a year , had bought her a shot before but that was last summer at this bar
Maybe you are creepy to her because I don't hear you trying to speak to her... just trying to get her drunk. Where are your manners
white cat? no , i live in Canada , yes i do have feelings for her and genuinely enjoyed our friendship when we got along better in the past
I guess try talking to her. Try speaking to her maybe and be friends and don't rush into anything. Feel free to pm me if you want more help friend
i tried to talk to her on many occasions and a lot of the time she was sober so i wasn't trying to get her drunk , she had every oppurtunity to speak to me about the problem and resolve things
She could of been afraid my guy... hot guys are intimidating too. I mean to me she could be inexperienced or maybe just big headed where she feels she doesn't have to talk. Or maybe you've had a girl and she wanted to respect that. Could be anything
i feel like a lot of the girls at the place where she works have big egos and self centred , you think they'd talk to the customers and build relationships that would yield better tips but instead half the time they just talk to themselves and more worried about there hair or nails than anything else. she spends so much time on her phone but never once has she sent me a text trying to speak to me about this or resolve problem
Then maybe there is no problem, why are you trying to create one?
Look settle down. Regroup and think for a second
there is definitely an issue between us
i know other restaurants that specifically talk to there servers about how important it is to speak to customers and ask how there day is and build relationships so they come back in more often
but not at this place
she never asks me anything about my life or job or anything really , half the time she just stands behind the bar and talks to the other girls or on her phone , and when i ask her genuine questions she often doesn't even answer or claims not to know the answer when she obviously does
Maybe she's uninterested. Clearly bad at her job. Doesn't mean there's a problem or issue tho
no she liked her job but obviously a social aspect to it , the other girls there liked her
i feel like she might be doing this cause she feels i did something to wrong her at some point and feels this response is justified based on whatever she feels i did to her previously
Sir. You have absolutely no idea how she feels about you. There's something what you're doing... there's a name to it but I can't recall at the moment but stop putting words in this girls mouth and go talk to her. I can't really do nothing about it. I wish I could. If you were to tell me what you did to her then okay but if not I suggest you speak to her like a man and ask her what's up
i have tried to talk to her but issue is i only see here there not getting private time with her when we could truly talk and open up more with each other without having to worry about there being other people around us. i can only say so much in a public setting when others around
i would like to talk to her and willing to listen to whatever she has to say even if its not what i might want to hear , at least i might get closer and could move on with my life knowing the truth about this person and situation
I don't know what to tell you I'm sorry
i know its a frustrating situation to be in with someone you know and like , which is why part of me would of prefered to talk to her and at least i'd get answers and could move on with my life if that is the only option she gives me
I understand
I don't think you really like her you just like the drama. Mh
we talked today but not about the issues we had between us , she seemed to be in a better mood though which was a positive sign although recall something similar happened last year at end of summer then she disappeared for some time
She's afraid to speak her mind.
it does seem like she's scared to open up to me about her true feelings whatever they may be