Generally girls rarely look at / gawk / stare in a subtle way at men since men aren't good looking and attractive enough to catch their attention and appeal them...
But what about some rare handsome looking men?
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Trending & News Generally girls rarely look at / gawk / stare in a subtle way at men since men aren't good looking and attractive enough to catch their attention and appeal them...
But what about some rare handsome looking men?
Believe it or not, we do look at men very often - some of us are just better at being discreet about it. But there's a difference in appreciating someone's aesthetic, feeling attracted to them or simple gender envy, in my case. Sometimes a guy passes me by and I think Damn, I'm not sure if you are beautiful, hot or if I just want to be you.
Gender envy?
Why?
Mostly men envy women and wish to be a beautiful woman...
But never heard of a woman being envy of a man and wishing to be a man.
The reasoning is different for everyone. In my case, if I were a guy or would transition, I'd hope to look as nice as this specific person when I see them. I suppose because I'd know from my own reaction that out there, someone might be looking at me the same way. But more generally speaking, I think it comes from a place where some women or non-binary folks also believe that you would have it easier in life - you'd be a man, even *your* type of man to begin with, and you'd be handsome in your own opinion. It gives you the feeling of a promise that it could be better and give you the confidence you need. I think it also has something to do with upbringing, in some cases. Again in my case, I grew up with the impression that I had to reject anything remotely feminine because girls were seen as weaker and less important than boys. Now I know that this was internalized misogyny, but it makes sense why I got envious at a young age at boys around me. Today, it's for other reasons.
Oh it's sad to hear that you were made to feel that being feminine isn't nice and that being a male is only better and more superior. It's not that case anyway!
Being a woman you get to be more aesthetic, have better charming aesthetic physical traits and neater skin , genitals, no beard.. not to worry about hairy chest and back , no erections and not much horny.
No need to shave face on a daily basis.
Having more people to admire you
If I see a man or woman that is really attractive I honestly try not to look at them because I don’t want to stare. With an attractive man I just want to look at his face/chest/arms and nobody got time for that. If I see a more attractive women it would be her face and overall aesthetic
Nobody got time for that? What do you mean?
In general who catches your attention more and seems more appealing.. men or women?
Although women are more aesthetic yet men catch more attention and seem more attractive?
If there's an average man of decent height, even he'd attract your attention and might even feel appealing... compared to a beautiful tall aesthetic woman?
Hahaha 😂😹. But how can something/someone more aesthetic (women in this case) not be more attractive and appealing?
Women have looked at me like I'm a piece of meat on a rack. But I've noticed when among other men, they only eye up the handsome ones. The average ones aren't given even a little time of day. I've also noticed some women staring while 'fixing' their outfits.
You are an average looking man? Is this what you mean? And yet women have looked at you like a piece of meat?
What kind of women? Friends? Unknown stranger women?
I meant that I'm a handsome man and noticed that every time new girls joined in the Office. Immediately their eyes would jump straight to the few good looking guys. The average ones were always completely invisible. Female strangers and girls at work have looked at me like I was a piece of meat. They are definitely visual. They also talk sexual as well but will use word play most of the time.
Ah I see. You are some of the few handsome men. Lucky you!
Are you tall too?
Even average type of women stare at you and try to talk to you?
No. I'm 5'7 but I don't see height as an issue and I like my height. Average women and very good looking have all shown interest, as well as various ages. I'm in my mid 40's but look a lot younger. I was approached by a temporary worker at this Office who thought I was 25, she said she was 21. I prefer to remain single though so I bet they see that as a challenge.
Some stare, but some approach if I show interest back but sometimes you just want to look...
Wow you look almost 20 years younger than your age! What's the secret dude?
You don't have balding issues or greyish beard?
Even tall / taller women approach you and show interest in you / look at you?
The secret is a combination of mindset, diet, exercise and not allowing toxicity into my life. I train isometrics with an Isochain every 2 days which involves doing static lifts such as dead-lift, shoulder press and seated row etc (without moving). I do intermittent fasting a few hours a day, and I enjoy life and never complain.
Supplementing with Codeage or Natures plus hydrolyzed collagen (that includes eggshell membrane / bone broth) alone will knock years off your face and body in mere months. Supplementing with vitamin C, N-acetyl cysteine and organic sulfur is the precursor to collagen production and will encourage your body to make its own supply again. After doing this my need to supplement collagen went from being daily, to being every 2-3 weeks!
Reading and confessing Scripture and the Bible also promotes health and longevity because instead of listening to the lies from the media (that you get weaker as you age with poor health), you start to listen to the truth instead... obviously this will depend on your particular faith / belief etc.
For example:
Deuteronomy 34:7
'Moses was 120 years old when he died, yet his eyesight was clear, and he was as strong as ever.'
Stay away from the news and those COVID shots too, that will keep you young.
I've been approached by more women my own height or shorter but taller women have still shown interest.
I almost forgot to mention that I started to get thinning hair and reversed it with affirmations and I reversed the small patches of gray I was getting with subliminal audio.
Wow dude. You put in lot of efforts.
Which subliminal and affirmation did you use for hair? Mind sharing it with me?
When it becomes a lifestyle, it feels pretty effortless. My form of training is just standing under tension for 20 seconds... tough but also easy.
The affirmations I used to grow my thinning hair back were saying the following out loud many times a day (it was 1 week of saying before I noticed any improvement) 'Through God, my subconscious made my hair and is now fully regrowing the hair on the crown of my head. I am whole, harmonious, happy, healthy, wealthy, content, confident prosperous and abundant. I am perfect in Christ's image and by His stripes I am healed'
To understand more read the book 'The Power Of Your Subconscious Mind by Murphy, Joseph'.
For the gray hair reversal, initially I used this one www.realsubliminal.com/product/reverse-gray-hair
But then I realized the problem with the following statements
'I am creating more melanin constantly'
'I have a large amount of natural melanin'
'My melanocytes are producing melanin consistently'
They are too generic and need to specify hair only since melanin is also found in skin and eyes. Therefore using the above subliminal unchanged could potentially result in a change of eye color and / or skin tone / color. Thus I learned how to make my own subliminal with the specific statements using software called Mindzoom and have been using that ever since. It takes a very long time to reverse even a tiny amount of gray hair though. The good thing is once the new 'program' is in your subconscious mind even if you stop listening, your gray hair gradually reverses each day!
It's an audio that cannot be heard so is easy to use while doing other stuff around the house or while working on projects. You can add music to it if you want though.
Wow ok. You never felt short for a man at 5'7 especially when you met / saw taller women?
Do even taller women give you attention and approach you?
Nope. I never feel short at all, even around taller women. I work with a guy that is over 6ft tall and he is the one who is always saying 'that girl over there is checking you out!'
I haven't met many taller women, maybe I don't notice them as much.
Also bear in mind that women have better peripheral vision than men and they check us out very subtly sometimes. I will never forget this woman I was walking by, at the corner of my eye I noticed her look me down to up in a fraction of a second. I saw her a few more times over the months and she always zeroed in on me from a distance.
Damn. Women look at you so subtle way!
Lucky male.
But you are still single and virgin man?
I'm not a virgin. I used to be into long term relationship. Now I prefer being single because it's 100% freedom and I love it.
It's likely that a lot of men are being checked out by women but don't even notice.
One day at work I heard a strange noise above and looked up to see what it was. About 5 minutes later a woman came over to me saying 'I saw that too'. I said 'what?' then she replied 'You know above'. I said how did you see that. Then she admitted she had been watching me. This time I had no idea. See how subtle they are.
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Girls do pay attention to good looking guys. we just don't look at a guy's legs. When their walking in front of us we might be looking at their butt or if he has his shirt off our eyes might wonder. but in reality, while guys ten to look at our boobs we aren't looking down at their crotch.
Girls pay attention to those few rare handsome men only? Isn't it?
Girls might look at guys butt? Do Guys have butts that can attract a woman's attention?
Girls don't look at guys legs at all? Not even if it's nicely shaped and shaved barr smooth hairless?
Do girls look at other woman's legs or not?
What about a shirtless guys torso is so attractive to make a woman's eyes go for it?
@cyclingkmi yes, guys with no shirt on are hot 🔥 legs aren't a true on hairy or not
Does a woman's nice shapely maintained and smooth hairless shiny skinned legs of a woman attract attention and look appealing?
Of course we check men out, we aren't blind. Doesn't mean we will make it obvious all the time or approach. But yes we check men out all the time we have active imaginations too
Check out ONLY handsome very good looking men?
Fit but average looking? Or fit but short men?
Hmm?
What's your height and why do you think 5'6 or so is ok and not short for a man?
5'4 and 5'6 isn't much of difference ans also a 5'4 woman would look similar to a 5'6/ 5'6 guy anyway since women tend to "look" taller than a man
Well, what is handsome to a woman is usually different to what men think is handsome.
What are you trying to say?
What do you think? If they find a man attractive, obviously they look at them. 🙄🤦🏾♀️
But they'd only find really handsome rare men attractive enough to look at them more than once... they won't look at an average man who is uglier than her
That's what you think. It's not what I said. Everybody has different tastes.
But we rarely notice any woman paying attention to or looking at an average common man...
Again, that's what you think. You can speak for yourself.
Are men aesthetic? As aesthetic and charming as women are / can be?
I look at his handsome face! That's all cause I'm a respectful lady ✌🏻
Are men handsome? Mostly women are more beautiful and aesthetic than men
Also do you imagine something about him... although just looking at his face?
Men are handsome... some men. No I don't have to imagine anything. I can appreciate a handsome face.
Exactly some men are only handsome. Very rarely. Yeah?
And mostly women are beautiful and attractive, agree?
No I'm straight. You can have your opinion tho.
Mostly men in general are unaesthetic and uglier than women..
Very rare men are aesthetic and handsome.
So you still find men in general attractive and appealing than women?
Yes I'm attracted to men not women.
"Mostly men in general are unaesthetic and uglier than women"
This is an excuse ugly guys use to feel better about themselves 😂
How would this statement make an ugly man feel better about himself? 😭👿
Men are ugly.. compared to women
Cos he just says this to make an excuse not to work on his appearance
What can an ugly man do anyway?
Plastic surgery?
He can lose weight, gain muscle, get a good haircut, take care of his skin/hygiene. Get proper clothes that look good on him.
What if he is short?
What if he grows lots of body hair?
What if he is suffering from baldness?
Has small dark penis?
Nothing wrong with being short.
If he has a lot of back hair, he can wax it off... women also wax their body hair. Does he have a nice shaped head? What do u mean by small penis... nothing wrong with it being dark.
He is quite short for a man. Nothing wrong?
He has a lot of body hair all over his chest and abdomen, very hairy legs , thighs and arms. So? What to do z wax whole body?
What exactly is a nice shaped head? He has lot of hair thinning and clearly his scalp is visible on the whole area where male pattern baldness effects men.
Small penis means he has small penis of 5 inches erect and 3 inches flaccid.
He is dark in general and his genitals are very dark much darker than rest of his body :/
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