Do girls like men staring at them?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

We are stared at by hundreds and hundreds of guys of all ages from the time we are 12 or 13, and that's in regular clothes. It gets way worse when we wear sexy clothes (not slutty, just normal sexy) or a bikini, even a one-piece. It is a shock when it first happens and it takes a lot of getting used to. Then you hear boys in your class are jerking off to you. Then you hear it's to all girls, but that doesn't help much. Then you learn ways to deal with it and avoid it, but you can't always. Being pretty is always there, but it's also there whenever you want it, so if there's a guy you like it's not hard to get his attention. And when we get old and it goes away, I'm sure that will be pretty harsh. I see these older actresses who were hot when they were young freaking out and overdoing it with the plastic surgery and the desperation to be noticed, and the media treats them as if they are just as hot as they used to be, when we can all see they're not.

Enaya · Accepted Answer

I don't mind admiring glances as long as it is respectful. If there is catcalling, comments, or whistling, those are just wrong and is never welcome by any woman. If it is in a familiar space like an office or social setting that someone is looking, I don't mind, again, as long as nothing sleezy is going on like oogling. If it is open admiration by someone I like, that is always welcome, even if it makes me self-conscious and makes me blush.

JustBeingReal727 · Accepted Answer

There's is a difference between a glance and staring, some people stare because of anxiety not knowing what to what to say. They can dress however they want but if they dress in way that says all the want is attention than attention is what they get same applies for males. Everybody seeks out some form of attention depending on what type of personality they have. It's just human nature.

OfMiceandMen · Accepted Answer

I don't think it is a big deal stealing a little look here and there, as they do the same thing to us. But to sit there and stare for several seconds starts to encroach on the creepy side of things.

There is a fine line when it comes to trying to catch her gaze and it just being plain ole stalkerish.

chrissykerdock · Answer

put on a miniskirt and guys and woman will check you out... whistles get recorded via their phone cameras guys trying to pick you up etc... it's not good to walk around in a miniskirt but you can in a mall you don't get bothered much as you'd think... maybe looks but no one does more than that usaully and i can't speak for all girls.

Genie23 · Answer

No. Being admired/looked at can be nice. It feels nice when someone you like looks at you and smile but to be stared at? I'd even get creeped out by someone I like if they stare at me. Staring at someone is rude.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

They Love it! Hahaha.

Anemone978 · Answer

No but I guess that is why I dress like a man.. tho even when I was dressed like complete shit there was a guy who literally stared me down and was checking me out for like a good 2 minutes until I got in the car..

DamianTheSmikkelbeer · Answer

There’s a difference in looking at a female and staring at them, staring is wrong and any dude who thinks it’s okay can piss off. Learn some manners and be respectful, y’all

AaronKrieger · Answer

Been watching a little too much Twillight there I see

inhua · Answer

only if the guys doing the staring are hot.

Reem12345reem · Answer

being looked at yes , it can remind u that ur attractive and pretty , but stared at no it makes me uncomfortable

purplepoppy · Answer

Why does anyone think staring at someone is ok?

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

If a guy looks at me, I don't care. Or I might not even know they are.

Rosexøxø · Answer

Yes I do 🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙃🙂 any which way  lmao

Haha456 · Answer

yes. just like men enjoy when women check them out. its an ego boost

Googlemyahoo · Answer

Rapey vibes

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Staring is awkward and weird. Respectful Observations/Analyses is better.

Anonymous · Answer

Seeing as staring is linked to certain medical problems such as Autism, Epilepsy, Narcolepsy and Dementia, women are not entitled to have a problem with it as it would be disability discrimination.

imawfulatusernames · Answer

I’ll tolerate glances if you’re trying to be sly. Catcalling or looking at me for a while is always creepy and never welcome.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Only if she finds you physically attractive. If a woman thinks you're ugly she won't feel comfortable with a man staring at her.

zagor · Answer

Depends on if it's Tom Brady or Danny DeVito doing the staring.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Maybe some, but I would think most find it at least annoying.

In_Trance · Answer

It's all about how attractive the girl thinks you are

Nekokumma · Answer

Because I have really bad anxiety... I hate when anyone looks or stares at me... gives me bad thoughts and gives me the creeps...

Engin12 · Answer

some girls like a smile and gaze into her eyes

Anonymous · Answer

If a guys does this to me, I give him high vibes that he’s in danger. And he backs off quick

Agape93 · Answer

I don't. To me, that makes you a potential threat

mandyfire98 · Answer

Nope. A glance is one thing but staring is creepy

whereismyjohnny · Answer

No. It makes me uncomfortable.

Siri137 · Answer

I don't like being stared at, no.

Spade_01 · Answer

If they find those guys attractive, yes.

sheikalana · Answer

Hate that. Gives creep vibes.

IknowthatIdontKnow09 · Answer

Nobody like people staring at us even men

Jazzy54 · Answer

Not really. It makes me uncomfortable.

TrillXHippy · Answer

No don’t stare at women for any reason

Anonymous · Answer

not at all. I want to slap them in the face.

CrimsonAngel09 · Answer

Nope.

Mimi_758 · Answer

NO, I do not

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah like a garbage

Anonymous · Answer

Uhm no.

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