Do Girls like Men staring at them?

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Shehnaz · Accepted Answer

Girls want to have their cake and eat it too. They just can't do without guys looking at them but girls want to choose who looks at them and who does not. For example if a guy is extremely good looking, is dressed up well and drives an expensive vehicle then they want him to look at them or even stare at them. On the other hand if there is another guy who is not good looking and is doing dressed shabbily then they would find his look as a creepy stare. This choice is actually impossible and unfair in the society. For all thoae girls who say that they don't like the guys to stare at them, if you ask them that would it be okay if the city administration decided that their would be separate schools, colleges, malls, parks, pubs, beaches, streets, lanes and roads for girls and guys or there would be separate timings for for girls and guys then would you like it? Trust me almost all the girls would be against the idea.

Iwant2kno · Accepted Answer

Some women will say is rude or creepy and not okay. Personally I don’t mind it because I understand men will look, is their nature. As long as men don’t touch or disrespect me in any way, I don’t mind it. Is no different than a woman staring at a very handsome/ attractive man, find it natural…🤷🏻‍♀️

CrazyGirl2 · Answer

As a rule NO, most people do not like other people staring at them! That goes for guys staring at us as, both we approach, and as we walk away. Like I said “As A Rule” I am SURE at least SOME women like men staring at them. As with all human behavior, there is no such thing as “all or none” when it comes to human sexuality and what people like and dislike.

Xoxocutekitty · Answer

A quick glance, maybe a nod of appreciation, or heck even a thumbs up would be okay in my book.

Full on staring for more than 5 seconds feels about the same as having a recorded camera turned on. Most people don't like it, whether it's shoved in their face or creeily angled from behind.

A few people like the attention, but if you're not one of those people it feels like an invasion of privacy, like you have this spidey sense of being watched and judged constantly.

Smoke-n-Growls · Answer

I don't like it.

It's impolite and creepy af to swear. And most men don't do it subtly, either, but they think they do.

It's more a sort of "wow, if you were horny why didn't you watch porn and rub one out before going outside" for me.

KelleyNice · Answer

They certainly want to be noticed by guys they hope will notice them. They don't care about other guys and especially they don't like those guys staring at them. Decades ago, women in Sweden would sunbath nude. However, they stopped when foreign men started spying on them.

Anonymous · Answer

fuck no. Especially when I’m in a restaurant and eating with my family , if you’re fucking staring at me while I’m fucking eating I’m going to think you’re a perv. Stop staring at us when we’re eating. If we’re at a store and you see that we’re in our pjs or sweats or whatever stop fucking staring just stop it. If you look at us and smile FINE that’s FINE but if you just stare at us and grin or smirk that’s automatically disgusting to us. Be friendly don’t be a fucking creep.

laurieluvsit · Answer

Looking, yes... staring, no.

WhitneySnow · Answer

A quick glance from a boy is ok, especially if you like him (but even if you don’t). Staring is not.

1GoldTwins · Answer

Neutral. It's just something you get used to. But I can never get used to the ones who stare like a cat about to pounce on a mouse. Eyes locked at all times.

Faith18letsgo · Answer

No, it makes me uncomfortable, objectified and scared. It can be the start of an unpleasant interaction or it can just be unnerving and then you feel relieved.

Aerissa_Jade · Answer

No, makes me wonder if something is wrong or showing that shouldn't be... looking is fine but staring is just creepy. That is unless you know them personally and its okay to do so.

Sour-rose · Answer

No. Creeps me out or makes me think they can see my d... dangly earrings and they about to fall off or something. Or my makeup is off.

SaartjieJane · Answer

Sometimes it’s nice but other times it’s incredibly weird especially when they stare for ages… so awkward and uncomfortable

Biancam13 · Answer

Not really. It's an ego boost sometimes, sure. Especially if it's someone I would be attracted to. But I don't like intense staring at all.

wingattebaby16 · Answer

i do.. why else dress sexy and wear make up. the key is we want Certain men to look at us.

bakajana · Answer

If it's eye contact and not a stare i wouldn't mind but if it's about my body I'd feel really uncomfortable.

Blackcosmo · Answer

A glance is fine but staring is not ok. Very disrespectful.

EllaNella · Answer

staring is rude and the majority of people don't like it

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I do not care if guys notice my appearance but I care if guys notice my feelings or my sacrifices.

Snsl153 · Answer

In my case it isn't just men who stare, and no, I don't like it at all.

mandyfire98 · Answer

Absolutely not. Don't stare at people. It's not socially acceptable.

shaysh87 · Answer

yes. but it does not mean she would date you. she just likes the attention.

_deeznuts · Answer

Sometimes, it makes me feel good, but sometimes its a little creepy (especially if it's a old man) and u just wanna get the heck out of there.

Spotifyplaylist · Answer

Personally I hate it (especially since im lesbian).

Avadarling · Answer

Happens everyday yo yup hmm

Literalbillionaire17 · Answer

I don’t mind it unless it’s like super intense. Like there’s a flirty stare and then there’s a creepy you’re doing too much stare.

sea_09 · Answer

If they are around my age sure! I take it as a compliment.

sheikalana · Answer

I personally think that staring regardless of the gender is really rude.

jengeorge26 · Answer

Sometimes, they are just showing that they like the way I look 👀

Conflicted48 · Answer

Yes we do but not in a creepy way. It does help boost our confidence a little but also lets us know that what ever we are doing for ourselves, its working.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope. You can say wow cute girl (to yourself) but not stare.

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